"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So i must ask when a female hits you with..

christz

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"i can't trust myself around you.."

what the hell does she mean, now i had her explain and basiclly she said she wanted to bang me so bad but didn't wanna cause drama with (dudes name) and had there been drama i woulda dispatched it right away.

she said this in the heat of the moment while her "dude" was spying on us alone on her deck i told her to come close to me, and she did then she stepped away and i was like come here.. she's like no in a playfull way and then she moved farther away out of my arms reach, then i said come here again and pointed in front of me..

she's like no, i can't trust myself around you besides he's stareing at you.. (pointing to the AFC douche bag)

so wtf does that mean... i was makeing HUUUUGE headway then she slams me with that.. how does a DJ handle a situation like this if it ever comes up again!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You must lead it can't be her fault for why you too had sex. Ever heard some PUAs saying "It just happened" well that is how she should feel. Now when you have sex she'll think, "It was his fault because he lead it to sex and now were fuvking so its not my fault."
 

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Distant Light said:
You must lead it can't be her fault for why you too had sex. Ever heard some PUAs saying "It just happened" well that is how she should feel. Now when you have sex she'll think, "It was his fault because he lead it to sex and now were fuvking so its not my fault."

Distant Light hit the nail on the head.

She wants it but you need to take all responsibility.

Do her the favour of taking advantage her.

JJ
 

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Jay Jay said:
Distant Light hit the nail on the head.

She wants it but you need to take all responsibility.

Do her the favour of taking advantage her.

JJ
i have to say that this makes more sense now haveing thought about previous encounters with this girl.. she one time acted in a way that she wanted me to just grab her and make out with here.. i'm talking slam up against the wall type stuff.. espeiclly with these weird looks she gives me like OMG do something now.

so i guess i have no choice but to basiclly "grab" her and make it happen
 
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christz said:
"i can't trust myself around you.."
This means that she wants to have sex!!

So around most men she can restrain her sexual lust - so she "trusts herself" to keep her clothes on - but around you she cannot restrain herself thus she does not trust herself to maintain the state of keepin her clothes on her body!

This is woman-ese. - it is basically an Anti-Hor defense which she tells to all the guys!! :rolleyes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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