So I met this stripper...

[SpartanWarrior77]

Met this stripper at a club a few months back. I threw some cash on her. She gave me her number after I spoke her native tongue. We met up and I took her on a date. We later fvcked in her car that night. During the date, I toured her around with some of my rich friends who were showering me with gifts at the time despite me being broke. She started getting very emotional and telling me how much she liked me. I then told her that what we had wouldn't last because I was leaving the country and going to Europe to live. During that time, she kept messaging me, liking all my posts and sending me videos of her. She would always respond very quickly to my messages too. Fast forward a few months, I came back to the US mostly due to the COVID situation (not being able to find a job in EU). I told her I came back and she got very excited and told me she'd visit me in my state. So now she is coming in 2-3 days and she's going to stay in the big city near me for a couple of days. I told her I'd meet up and spend time with her for at least one of the days. I told her I may or may not have something going on for New Years so she purchased two return tickets. One in case I have nothing going on so she could go back to her state before New Years and one 2 days after New Years in case she is going to spend it with me. It's interesting how she is so responsive, invests money into our dynamic and everything. I think this is a classic case of her "being the ideal woman" in the beginning in hopes of hooking me and then slowly taking back the frame to her advantage over time.

I'm just interested in any thoughts/experiences similar to this. What is particularly striking is all of the love bombing I'm getting from this chick. She was a stripper for 5 years and then transitioned to real estate "right after meeting me". She's also turning 26 or 27 soon so I'm assuming she sees that wall coming soon. She also seems to be trying to portray covert communication that she is GF/Wife material. There is no way in HELL that I would wife her up but I'm definitely going to take advantage of her attraction. She seems so genuine but my guard is up. I am contemplating bringing her to my parents New Years party bc it will be fun for me to have a hot piece of ass for that holiday instead of being content with hanging w relatives. Don't worry, my parents are pretty red pill and know that she is a stripper, they also know I would never turn things serious w her and it's just a fling. However, the stripper doesn't know that and she will likely attempt to seduce my parents too thus trying to get through to me by going through my family. I can't wait to see what happens! Will keep ya'll updated.

 

[Bigpapa]

Just do not be stupid and think that she can be more than a friend with benefits , and enjoy it while it lasts

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Met this stripper at a club a few months back. I threw some cash on her. She gave me her number after I spoke her native tongue. We met up and I took her on a date. We later fvcked in her car that night. During the date, I toured her around with some of my rich friends who were showering me with gifts at the time despite me being broke. She started getting very emotional and telling me how much she liked me. I then told her that what we had wouldn't last because I was leaving the country and going to Europe to live. During that time, she kept messaging me, liking all my posts and sending me videos of her. She would always respond very quickly to my messages too. Fast forward a few months, I came back to the US mostly due to the COVID situation (not being able to find a job in EU). I told her I came back and she got very excited and told me she'd visit me in my state. So now she is coming in 2-3 days and she's going to stay in the big city near me for a couple of days. I told her I'd meet up and spend time with her for at least one of the days. I told her I may or may not have something going on for New Years so she purchased two return tickets. One in case I have nothing going on so she could go back to her state before New Years and one 2 days after New Years in case she is going to spend it with me. It's interesting how she is so responsive, invests money into our dynamic and everything. I think this is a classic case of her "being the ideal woman" in the beginning in hopes of hooking me and then slowly taking back the frame to her advantage over time.

I'm just interested in any thoughts/experiences similar to this. What is particularly striking is all of the love bombing I'm getting from this chick. She was a stripper for 5 years and then transitioned to real estate "right after meeting me". She's also turning 26 or 27 soon so I'm assuming she sees that wall coming soon. She also seems to be trying to portray covert communication that she is GF/Wife material. There is no way in HELL that I would wife her up but I'm definitely going to take advantage of her attraction. She seems so genuine but my guard is up. I am contemplating bringing her to my parents New Years party bc it will be fun for me to have a hot piece of ass for that holiday instead of being content with hanging w relatives. Don't worry, my parents are pretty red pill and know that she is a stripper, they also know I would never turn things serious w her and it's just a fling. However, the stripper doesn't know that and she will likely attempt to seduce my parents too thus trying to get through to me by going through my family. I can't wait to see what happens! Will keep ya'll updated.

Most remain with a "stripper" mindset many years after leaving that venue. 5 years in the business she's "indoctrinated". What "stripper" means to a "normal" guy is she will be multi dating at all times. Always talking to "5 guys". "5 guys" might not all hit, one or two will, but she will string the others along. You can't be too good to them, you can't show or share too many emotions. I wouldn't put them into any personal affairs or business. They can't see weakness or you in weak positions, they are like sharks for blood. Many "strippers" main program is a "reduction" program of the men she interacts with. Usually the guys good at fvcking them, don't give a sh1t and don't listen to them at all, so those guys are almost immune, striipper chases those guys and longs for him to be "nicer" like the other men who admire her and will fall in love. In the stripper environment, the stripper is the masculine DOM. Even though she has enough physical attributes to excite a man, she uses that to dominate men, as a "little napoleon", this is what they do. I could go on about it some more, but you get the point.

 

[bat soup]

This explains everything. This is why she's so interested:

During the date, I toured her around with some of my rich friends

Don't be captain save a stripper.

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

Many "strippers" main program is a "reduction" program of the men she interacts with. Usually the guys good at fvcking them, don't give a sh1t and don't listen to them at all, so those guys are almost immune, striipper chases those guys and longs for him to be "nicer" like the other men who admire her and will fall in love. In the stripper environment, the stripper is the masculine DOM. Even though she has enough physical attributes to excite a man, she uses that to dominate men, as a "little napoleon", this is what they do. I could go on about it some more, but you get the point.

I'm actually planning on showing some weakness and investment to see how she reacts. I want to think that she's getting to me. I want her to think that her spell is working. This will make her technique sloppier and expose some weak points for me to see and learn from. I'm going to alternate hot/cold.

Also can u elaborate on this reduction program?

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

Just do not be stupid and think that she can be more than a friend with benefits , and enjoy it while it lasts

Definitely. I am nowhere near ready for anything like that anyway. I just left an almost-unicorn to pursue my objectives and capitalize on my SMV later on. The girl I left is 100x better than this one.

 

[bat soup]

I've always found it strange how Americans seem to see strippers as some kind of high-value woman that are some kind of achievement to date. To me, they're just lazy prostitutes.

 

[Bigpapa]

I've always found it strange how Americans seem to see strippers as some kind of high-value woman that are some kind of achievement to date. To me, they're just lazy prostitutes.

I think that if you can bang a stripper or an escort without paying for it , it is an achievement . Basically you are cheating the system

it takes a lot of game to do so , so makes sense to feel good about it

I dated only once and briefly a stripper , but for me it was more about self validation and to thick something from my bucket list

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'm actually planning on showing some weakness and investment to see how she reacts. I want to think that she's getting to me. I want her to think that her spell is working. This will make her technique sloppier and expose some weak points for me to see and learn from. I'm going to alternate hot/cold.

Also can u elaborate on this reduction program?

Man eater. Tear folks down.

 

[sid77]

Obviously goes without saying use a condom and flush it when you're done. Dont leave any opportunity for her to latch onto your potential with an 'accident'

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

You are her golden ticket.

She snags you, she's on easy street.

She loses you, she's giving handjobs for Micky D's money and living in sewers.

She's got thousands of generations f deep female manipulation/seduction.

I can't wait to see what happens! Will keep ya'll updated.

No way this ends well.

Best case is she lays the mother of all guilt trips on you for playing her and then ghosting her.

Middle case is you catch feelings and fall for her and she gets half of all your future earnings.

Worst case is she stabs you through your eye into your brain while you're sleeping.

 

[bat soup]

I think that if you can bang a stripper or an escort without paying for it , it is an achievement . Basically you are cheating the system

it takes a lot of game to do so , so makes sense to feel good about it

I dated only once and briefly a stripper , but for me it was more about self validation and to thick something from my bucket list

If you date any woman without paying for it, it's an achievement. Strippers or escorts don't have a higher value because they suck koch for a living. Often "free" sex with them ends up even more expensive than it would be just to pay.

There are plenty of men in Thailand getting sex for "free". Eventually they end up losing all their money to these crocodiles.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I think that if you can bang a stripper or an escort without paying for it , it is an achievement . Basically you are cheating the system

it takes a lot of game to do so , so makes sense to feel good about it

I dated only once and briefly a stripper , but for me it was more about self validation and to thick something from my bucket list

Their system does have a non paid sex partner. That's her bf. The others are her tricks.

 

[derby1]

I'm actually planning on showing some weakness and investment to see how she reacts. I want to think that she's getting to me. I want her to think that her spell is working. This will make her technique sloppier and expose some weak points for me to see and learn from. I'm going to alternate hot/cold.

what you are doing is gaming a woman, you will never outgame a woman. Understand life and technology is all in her favour.

she could finish you in a heartbeat. Please tread carefully or just walk away

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

I'm actually planning on showing some weakness and investment to see how she reacts. I want to think that she's getting to me. I want her to think that her spell is working. This will make her technique sloppier and expose some weak points for me to see and learn from. I'm going to alternate hot/cold.

Also can u elaborate on this reduction program?

She isn't showering you with affection for you, it's for her own validation. As soon as you supply the validation she wants she'll be satisfied and look down on you for ever validating her in the first place, then she'll be on to the next conquest. That will justify toying with you in her mind.

She's not consciously thinking the above, it's completely subconscious for these types, to her this is normal.

Think about it, what kind of person is attracted to someone that doesn't like them back? Primarily codependent types. A healthy girl would simply move on to someone that is putting forth the effort she seeks.

Eventually she'll resent you for not validating her or self destruct.

If she really has reformed herself through your inspiration then that's rare, and you're right to test and probe. She should never say something like "it's never enough for you", that would show that the reform isn't real. She should be happy to jump through your hoops, that's what a team player does when they love their captain.

Not only should leading her be effortless, but she should encourage and support your leadership.

How does she handle challenging situations or disagreements. Does she respond with violence? Withdrawal? Or does she communicate her frustrations well?

These types are fun when everything is perfect and there are no issues, but it's the hard times that define the true strength of a relationship.

And you have to ask yourself why you're interested in validating her anyway? It would seem that on some level you want something more serious to work out with her. Otherwise why invest the time or contemplate probing to begin with?

That's perfectly fine, it's your life, I just don't want to see you lying to yourself.

 

[Bigpapa]

How does she handle challenging situations or disagreements. Does she respond with violence? Withdrawal? Or does she communicate her frustrations well?

what would be the difference between the 2 in regards to the person ?

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

what would be the difference between the 2 in regards to the person ?

Genuine empathetic communication is impossible to fake, or at least extremely taxing for the people that are faking it. Her opinion can be acknowledged, but she should defer to you rather than escalate or play the victim.

A faker or codependent wouldn't be able to help themselves from dropping hints at how hard they're trying or otherwise escalating in order to receive any kind of validation/reaction, good or bad.

Ideally both parties give out of abundance, it's all organic, fun, and effortless. Interdependence, not codependency.

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

She isn't showering you with affection for you, it's for her own validation. As soon as you supply the validation she wants she'll be satisfied and look down on you for ever validating her in the first place, then she'll be on to the next conquest. That will justify toying with you in her mind.

She's not consciously thinking the above, it's completely subconscious for these types, to her this is normal.

Think about it, what kind of person is attracted to someone that doesn't like them back? Primarily codependent types. A healthy girl would simply move on to someone that is putting forth the effort she seeks.

Eventually she'll resent you for not validating her or self destruct.

If she really has reformed herself through your inspiration then that's rare, and you're right to test and probe. She should never say something like "it's never enough for you", that would show that the reform isn't real. She should be happy to jump through your hoops, that's what a team player does when they love their captain.

Not only should leading her be effortless, but she should encourage and support your leadership.

How does she handle challenging situations or disagreements. Does she respond with violence? Withdrawal? Or does she communicate her frustrations well?

These types are fun when everything is perfect and there are no issues, but it's the hard times that define the true strength of a relationship.

And you have to ask yourself why you're interested in validating her anyway? It would seem that on some level you want something more serious to work out with her. Otherwise why invest the time or contemplate probing to begin with?

That's perfectly fine, it's your life, I just don't want to see you lying to yourself.

I don't know why you mentioned relationship. I am 100% not interested in that with her. I am just interested in seeing how much fun. I can have with this one before she moves on to better prey. Appreciate the advice tho

 

[Serenity]

use a condom and flush it when you're done.

Don't flush condoms, especially not with your own toilet. Decent chance you'll clog the pipes. Take it with you and dispose of it properly in a safe place if you're paranoid.

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

Genuine empathetic communication is impossible to fake, or at least extremely taxing for the people that are faking it. Her opinion can be acknowledged, but she should defer to you rather than escalate or play the victim.

A faker or codependent wouldn't be able to help themselves from dropping hints at how hard they're trying or otherwise escalating in order to receive any kind of validation/reaction, good or bad.

Ideally both parties give out of abundance, it's all organic, fun, and effortless. Interdependence, not codependency.

Very interesting. I will see if she gets passive aggressive at any point. I remember I ghosted her messages a few times and she never threw a fit or reminded me about it. We will see what happens in perosn.