So I met someone, at what point do I ask her to meet?

[Formertopdog8945]

OK, typical and twice now on a dating site in full realization this isn't exactly the easiest way to meet anyone.. But we're talking and exchange basic info even get phone numbers, then I think.. OK, if I keep us talking now then what the hell are we gonna talk about when we meet so.. We know each other's names and where we're from and I ask to hang out and it gets awkward.. ??

 

[grayclif]

You don't ask to hang out. You say to her that you'd like to meet her tomorriw night at Ruby Tuesday at 7pm for a quick drink.

 

[xstang77]

Get the basics in but make sure you strike while the irons hot, I've made that mistake before,you need to initiate your intentions somewhat early so you don't end up a penpal or have her ghost you after talking hopes and dreams for hours. Try to make it smooth for example I lined one up yesterday: her: so what are you looking for seriously) me: well I plan to talk to you a little bit more then ask you on a date) she knows my intentions early but I'm not being pushy and keeping it joking and serious at the same time,1 hour later after basics I ask one more time and she agrees.

 

[dustmuffin]

ask her out immediately. Dont screw around. The longer you talk to her the more boring you get. Ask her out, get the date and go radio silent until the date.

 

[Poon King]

ASAP.

Why? Because a woman with high interest does not want to miss a good opportunity. Also, the more time you spend talking or texting the more insecure you seem. Like you are too chicken-sh!t to just ask her out. Time is valuable so sh!t or get off the pot. Women value their time even more and they want to know where you stand sooner rather than later.

Once I get a woman's contact information, my first text conversation is asking them to meet. The majority of women agree. The turn-around time between when I first get a woman's number and when I see them in person averages 2-5 days.

I generally don't use dating sites because they are huge time wasters. Most women don't respond and the amount of messaging, auditioning and other BS ass kissing you often have to do to get women to meet isn't worth it. Plus you can get cat-fished. On a dating site you might get one prospect a week if you're lucky since most women on dating sites are just attention wh0res or fat pigs. In the same time I can get five or more prospects a week by just leaving my house and picking women up old-school.

The best women around are usually not on dating sites. They don't need to be. Think about it.

 

[Formertopdog8945]

Literally everyones response except for Graycliffs was extremely helpful.. You guys really are setting me straight.. I think I basically did it right, I did it correctly minus the confidence.. I was a little skeptical of the one in reference in the beginning and I was dumb enough to tell her I was skeptical and she ****ing ghosted on me for it, she got turned off.. For every hot guy like me there are plenty more on POF, I'll be sure to escalate a lot more quickly next time and finish off in bed together.. Can't say I'm rusty anymore, it's time to shake it off

 

[PantyWhisperer]

ask her out immediately. Dont screw around. The longer you talk to her the more boring you get. Ask her out, get the date and go radio silent until the date.

This is true wisdom!! And it's similar to what Graycliff said so not sure why his response wasn't helpful. You give a woman time to think and she will talk herself out of almost anything. That or her friends will.

 

[Formertopdog8945]

No no, Graycliffs answer was short sighted and I'm still messing with 18-20 year olds so what he advised would sound way way to square.. But you're otherwise correct pantywhisperer (awesome name) I'M ON IT

 

[PantyWhisperer]

Thanks for the kudos on the name, lol. It's what I named my new Jag. The last one was Colossus The VagSlayer but I'm in a more quiet, introspective time in my life.