"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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move on, buddy!

If that girl chose her ex before you, teh next thing you gotta do is make her CHASE you instead of chasing her. You don't need to play any game or outgame that guy. It's just that you, who moves on and enjoys his life and dates other women and is OBVIOUSLY more valuable than her ex, will make her chase you. but that being said, don't stop contact with her. Just keep minimal contact so that she is reminded that she missed out on a big catch.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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schttrj said:
move on, buddy!

If that girl chose her ex before you, teh next thing you gotta do is make her CHASE you instead of chasing her. You don't need to play any game or outgame that guy. It's just that you, who moves on and enjoys his life and dates other women and is OBVIOUSLY more valuable than her ex, will make her chase you. but that being said, don't stop contact with her. Just keep minimal contact so that she is reminded that she missed out on a big catch.
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This guy has a point which is why I mentioned earlier it would be good for you to finad another girl your interested in.
 
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Detach and move on. She's broken. Your relationship with her is broken. Having her back is not the answer. You're only asking for something that's broken to come back into your life. You're only asking the cause of your pain to return to you.

And develop some self-control. You can't be making "mean/immature remarks" to people you claim to love.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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