"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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move on, buddy!

If that girl chose her ex before you, teh next thing you gotta do is make her CHASE you instead of chasing her. You don't need to play any game or outgame that guy. It's just that you, who moves on and enjoys his life and dates other women and is OBVIOUSLY more valuable than her ex, will make her chase you. but that being said, don't stop contact with her. Just keep minimal contact so that she is reminded that she missed out on a big catch.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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schttrj said:
move on, buddy!

If that girl chose her ex before you, teh next thing you gotta do is make her CHASE you instead of chasing her. You don't need to play any game or outgame that guy. It's just that you, who moves on and enjoys his life and dates other women and is OBVIOUSLY more valuable than her ex, will make her chase you. but that being said, don't stop contact with her. Just keep minimal contact so that she is reminded that she missed out on a big catch.
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This guy has a point which is why I mentioned earlier it would be good for you to finad another girl your interested in.
 
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Detach and move on. She's broken. Your relationship with her is broken. Having her back is not the answer. You're only asking for something that's broken to come back into your life. You're only asking the cause of your pain to return to you.

And develop some self-control. You can't be making "mean/immature remarks" to people you claim to love.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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