"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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so I{m in Buenos Aires, now what?

Leporello

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I am set up in an apartment about three blocks from La Recoleta, if people knwo what that is.

I have a fair amount of money.

almost all my nights and weekends are free.

My Spanish is good.

Do people have any advice on where to start?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pappadapolis

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Leporello said:
I am set up in an apartment about three blocks from La Recoleta, if people knwo what that is.

I have a fair amount of money.

almost all my nights and weekends are free.

My Spanish is good.

Do people have any advice on where to start?
They speak Portuguese in Brazil, not Spanish.
 

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Yea, they do speak portuguese in Brazil, but it so happens that Buenos Aires is in Argentina, where they speak spanish...
 

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Start in the same places you would at home. It is up to you, where do you meet women at home? While I was in Argentina, I met women in the supermarket(asked which wine they would reccomend), the plazas, and partying at night.

I found the girls in B.A. to be beautiful but many seem to suffer from G.P.S.
Golden ***** Syndrome was actually developed in the United States but has been transmitted across the world via human interaction, world wide media influence, etc. Add to this the "Che" air of superiority, I believe the term "criado" was used by a colombian friend of mine, and you may find yourself with a very high-maintenance, beautiful date.

Do you tango? Salsa? This always works.

Of the countries I've been to in Latin America, I enjoyed Argentina quite a bit, but the women like the traditional dating schema. If you are looking for wild ONS, head north to Brazil.

If you'll be there a while, just get the numbers and put in the leg work.

If you want easy access to model-quality women in the mean time look up
"Blacks". If your personal standards or morals do not allow you to exchange pesos for pooh-nanny you will probably enjoy the dating options of the country anyways.

I usually just walked around and talked to the women I wanted to speak to. As far as the clubs go, they are good.

Several good friends of mine have had similar experiences with the women there. Fun to look at but sometimes difficult to touch. It's odd though because I've enjoyed the company of several Argetnian women outside of Argentina with almost no work put in on my part-I'll chalk it up to their vacation.

Enjoy yourself.
 
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