Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So i lost 2 of my **** buddies in 1 night :D

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Happened last monday went over to HB7's house for a shag ... 3 hours later i decide i cant sleep in her bed cause its a single and it sucks ass... so i tell her to get dressed and come to mine...

On the way there my other **** buddy texts me outside a club that i have to pass to get home and wants to meet me... so im thinking to myself hehehe im gonna **** 2 girls tonight... so i send the first one home and use the excuse that "my ex is outside the club and i dont want her to see me bringing a girl back to my apartment because we only broke up recently" ...

Anyways she walks home and i meet up with my other **** buddy HB8 ... talk to her for a bit and she decides to go to a house party without me... *****. Tough **** i thought... at least ill get a good nights sleep.

Long story short. Got a text from HB7 saying that it was over she didn't like the way i blew her off... shortly followed by HB8 saying the same thing but for a different reason :D

Back to the game now i guess :(
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Same **** happened to me like 2 months ago. Except my main **** buddy called me saying that she was tired of me treating her like "A hoe". She said I never make an effort to drive across town to see her and I don't care about her at all. The very next day, basically the same thing happened with FB #2... she said all I want from her is Ass, so she's waisting her time. I guess all women expect a certain amount of attention or concern , even if you are just "fu*ck buddies".
 
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YOUNG CASINOVA said:
Same **** happened to me like 2 months ago. Except my main **** buddy called me saying that she was tired of me treating her like "A hoe". She said I never make an effort to drive across town to see her and I don't care about her at all. The very next day, basically the same thing happened with FB #2... she said all I want from her is Ass, so she's waisting her time. I guess all women expect a certain amount of attention or concern , even if you are just "fu*ck buddies".
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Duh dude, you can't make them feel like "A hoe".
 
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YOUNG CASINOVA said:
Same **** happened to me like 2 months ago. Except my main **** buddy called me saying that she was tired of me treating her like "A hoe". She said I never make an effort to drive across town to see her and I don't care about her at all. The very next day, basically the same thing happened with FB #2... she said all I want from her is Ass, so she's waisting her time. I guess all women expect a certain amount of attention or concern , even if you are just "fu*ck buddies".
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*****eeeez :( if i wanted to listen to their **** i would get a girlfriend... why cant girls understand this ? lol :D
 
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Well... to me thats what they are. When they're tired of being that... SWITCHHHH! I don't like to decieve...because I don't like clinginess from chicks I really don't giva F*ck about. I been doin this so long... I think I'm too cold.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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pingpongz said:
Happened last monday went over to HB7's house for a shag ... 3 hours later i decide i cant sleep in her bed cause its a single and it sucks ass... so i tell her to get dressed and come to mine...

On the way there my other **** buddy texts me outside a club that i have to pass to get home and wants to meet me... so im thinking to myself hehehe im gonna **** 2 girls tonight... so i send the first one home and use the excuse that "my ex is outside the club and i dont want her to see me bringing a girl back to my apartment because we only broke up recently" ...

Got a text from HB7 saying that it was over she didn't like the way i blew her off...
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If your f-buddy didn't want to sleep in your bed and told you to get dressed and come over to her house, then told you to go home because she had to pass by a club and her 6'1 ex was there that she didn't want to see bringing you to her bedroom, would that turn you on?
 
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YOUNG CASINOVA said:
I guess all women expect a certain amount of attention or concern , even if you are just "fu*ck buddies".
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LOL. Yeah I guess women are human too.
 
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YOUNG CASINOVA said:
Well... to me thats what they are. When they're tired of being that... SWITCHHHH! I don't like to decieve...because I don't like clinginess from chicks I really don't giva F*ck about. I been doin this so long... I think I'm too cold.
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Hey, you're just being your genuine self, so if they don't like that then w/e. Speaking of morality, it's a matter of perception...if you think killing people is ok, then that's what you do. Just remember that there are consequences, and then proceed with taking the appropriate action. I'm not going to lecture on what's right or wrong, so go with your own judgment.

I'm guessing you placed this thread up to share the story with your fellow DJs, so I'll just say it was probably a good learning experience for you. I'm just pondering about your last statement though. You weren't in the game before this event occured?
 
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You're focusing too much on the word "fvck" and forgot about the other part "buddy". Would you treat a buddy of yours like that? They aren't your sex slaves.
 
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The mistake alot of young wanna be players make is that..They don't tell the girl what the situation is. That means the girl has no idea she is merely a fuyck buddy.

Secondly they do not use a schedule and stick to it. Most wanna be players are roving around just for a quick shag instead of order. That means if sally is available wed this week they will see her instead of putting sally on a schedule of one or two permanante nights say tue and thur and sticking to it with no exceptions.

The wanna be's will back slide just to get laid. Thereby the women have no structure and once they know that they can control you by getting you to break the programmed days you lose.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alright this pisses me off. Look, if you don't want a f**kbuddy to get attached and start acting like a gf...then don't treat her like one. Don't invite her over to watch movies, don't ask her to meet you for lunch or take her to breakfast after she spends the night at your house, don't f*ck her for over a year and tell her that you do "care" and that "well I dont want a gf but im not banging anyone else." Don't feed her bullsh*t, don't talk to her every single day, don't kiss her like you mean it, don't hold her hand, don't cuddle her in bed, and don't introduce her to all your friends!

Sorry, just venting..but if any of you are like THIS to your fbuddy...then no wonder the girl gets confused. Geez.

No, we don't want to hear "can't hang out tonight, banging someone else.." but be straight about your intentions and don't just tell her what she wants to hear so she'll keep shagging you.
 
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What I'm saying is... I don't fill a FB's head up into even believing that it could ever evolve into a relationship at any point. I keep it on a friendly basis... I'll talk on the phone a little, speak when I see them... keep it casual, but I'm not holding hands, taking you out to dinner, buying gifts, etc. Some females who start off as FB's think that if they are keeping you satisfied sexually that it will make you see them in another light... Not the CASE FOR ME! I know they probably feel overtime that I dogged them out... but really all I did was be brutally honest.
 
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