"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So i kicked my friends bf's azz............

matt1001

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if she says sorry you dont have to kill your friendship over it as long as she knows what happened and i reckon you did the right thing, i dont have a sister but i would choose my brother over a girl esspecially if her bf is being a fag and beating up girls
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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chinwaggler

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if someone pushed my sis over and made her cry i'd break his legs i'm not even kidding but i don't have a sister lol so maybe i wouldnt. hmmm
 

decades

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you made grown men cry.
 

Heart Break Kid

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Don't apologise. I don't see how she thinks you could be jealous of a guy who harasses little girls. If it was my sis, I mose likely would not have given them the chance to apologise before. Congrats on standing your ground.

That being said, why do you want to go out with your friend? That sounds like oneitis. If you're the type of man who can stand his ground you can do a lot better.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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green69

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Why are you trying to keep a "friendship" with a girl you like?
 
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