"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So I just shaved my head almost bald!

MaxPayne

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I've just shaved my head almost bald, am a white guy and it doesn look bad, am not buff, but still it looks alright. I just feel like I look a little weird and I am worried that am not gonna be able to hold my confidence once my family and friends see it and start poking at it :p Am worried my personality is gonna change from "always using Wax" me to " Now bald and looks weird" me. lol

I guess my question is, how do u anchor confidence and make the idea of being bald sound cool .


cheers.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Did you shave it cause your going bald? Ive always held the opinion that if you are going bald, like I am it is better to shave it or cut it real short. If you're not going bald then I would recommend growing some hair with a stylish cut...Its always better that way. If you are bald then shaving or buzzing is the way to go. Better to embrace it then to hang onto a few scraps of hair with a comb over... If your family and friends dont like it then screw them, if you think you look good thats what matters...your confidence should come from inside.
 

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live up to your screen name. Would Max Payne give a fvck? Neither do you. It's just hair, it just is. The fact that you even are asking shows too much insecurity. Now man up you bald head summabytch!
 

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haha... shaving ur head is cool! i think it took my friend a little while to accept the fact that i shaved my head, but now they all say it suits me more... umm, id recommend buffing up abit though, and also, an ear-ring such as a stud wouldnt look bad either with a shaved head :up:
 

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i guess this is off-topic, but since we got some bald experts in here =)

ive always been told that i'd look great completely bald (smooth and shiny)... i currently use clippers and get it down to about the way justin timberlake has his... but i'd like to try it completely bald...

how would i do this and still be safe? i heard a straight razor is the best way to do this, but im not the safest person to have using a razor on my head...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I did the same thing recently.

I keep mine at a 1 all the time. I trim it every 4 to 5 days. My friends all say it looks so much better.

Proof was in the pudding when a HB9 ran her hands over my head Friday night. Sometimes they can't resist touching it.

Roll with it.
 

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If everybody else is walking around with a shaved head, it's probably time to get a new style.
 

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USE A HAT............THEN U TAKE IT OFF ITH A GRAND OPENING............TAH DAH.........CHECK IT OUT PEOPLE.

THe goal is for YOU to make fun of it first, then they got nothing.......after a while..........dont let anything phase you...........NO REACTION equates to boring and people will stop poking fun.
 

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LOOOL this is hilarious i swear i totally forgot i did this thread!

Thank you all for each and every comment, i appreciate them! ...will be replying to each of them soon.

Cheers
 

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Aight, so just for the record I shaved it Justin-Timberlake-Style! ;)

So anyway after a few days with this hair I started to like it! ;D

but I am still gonna grow it back long enough to Wax cause thats just "Who I Am" ...I like it better when I styled my hair with wax .

Though I am enjoying this hair style alot right now!...Its saving me alot of time when I want to go out, I dont have to style it anymore :D lol

Anyway Thank you all for the comments I appreciate em.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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