"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So I just discovered The Big Bang Theory (yes late)

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I don't watch T.V. usually but I'm staying for the week at my mom's place so downloaded the episodes. This **** is hilarious

However, more to the point of this forum, does anyone feel represented by the guys? I don't know about you, but I feel like at some point in my social life I was quite similar to them (although it's a clear exaggeration)... This is like watching my old life from a third person's view, I actually find that quite interesting.

Thought I had to share
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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This is one of my favorite shows right now. I mention it from time to time here, but I have yet to get a response about it, so I don't know if anyone here watches it or not. It has some relation to this forum as a lot of it deals
with male/female relations:

Leonard is insecure, desperate, and clingy. He tries to push for more intimacy with Penny, which usually backfires on him.
Howard has tried pickup techniques like peacocking and negs ("No one else could look so sexy with such greasy hair"), although now he is married.

Penny depends on her looks to get what she wants - she sponges wifi and meals off of her male neighbors Sheldon and Leonard. When she couldn't pay her electric bill, she sent them some change and a picture of herself in a bra. Except for Leonard, every one of her boyfriends was tall and good looking, and several were jerks.

But the main reason I like it is because it's funny. IMO.
 

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My favorite show on TV now, next to "How I Met Your Mother." I think it's very funny.

With that said, I cringe looking at Leonard and Penny interact. These are the kinds of shows that give nice guys false hope: you have Leonard acting like the world's worst (greatest?) AFC, yet he's still able to bang Penny despite his begging, giving in to her demands, and saying "I love you" to her all the time. It's ironic that Sheldon, because of his lack of being able to empathize with others and take people's words literally, comes off more like the Alpha-male in his relationship with Amy. And don't even get me started on Howard's marriage, that SCREAMS AFC all day!

But yea... still love the show!
 

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The big bang theory is cheesy as hell I like how I met your mother the observation was nice though
 

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i like Family Matters
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Though I prefer How I met your mother more, Big bang theory is good but too exaggerated for my taste, HIMYM is more realistic in some stuff which is what I like.
 

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The show is funny

That blonde on their is a true hottie.
 

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The first 3 seasons were the best. It's been going down hill since then. The episodes are hit and miss now.
 

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That show makes me cringe. I've never been able to watch soaps with cliché male-female interactions (except Friends, for some reason) and TBBT takes those clichés to a whole new level. The characters annoy the **** out of me, the only one I can remotely listen to without throwing anything at the TV is Leonard, and that is only when he's not talking to Penny.

Also, I have a physics degree and the physics background and jokes suck. Hard.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Harry Wilmington said:
With that said, I cringe looking at Leonard and Penny interact. These are the kinds of shows that give nice guys false hope: you have Leonard acting like the world's worst (greatest?) AFC, yet he's still able to bang Penny despite his begging, giving in to her demands, and saying "I love you" to her all the time.
Leonard has been able to bang Penny, probably because she's a bit on the sleazy side. But what he really wants from her is her affection, which she tends to withhold, partly because he's so clingy. So his desperation has hurt him in that regard.

It's been established that he's so insecure because his mother withheld affection from him and was emotionally distant (as a child he had to build a "hugging machine" - which her husband would borrow lol.
 

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I tried watching those nerdy AFCs and couldn't do it. I'll take a Charlie Harper or a Barney Stinson and mo'Ƒuckin day of the week. Those nerds wouldn't even be able to sniff that HB's steamy crapper in the real world.
 

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All u people on this site are Pathetic Nerds with No lives

Everyone on this goddamn site is a pathetic nerd with no life, no job, and no social skills. I can totally see why u guys would relate to the Big Bang Theory show.... 'cause it's about no-lifes like u. I'd like to see any of you walking into a bar and try to get a girl... I bet you can't. You probably can't even get any of the girls on Xbox live or on you're stupid WOW games you play all day. You probably live your mom's basement to boot.

So, here's some of MY steps to help you guys get girls.
STEP 1: GET A LIFE
STEP 2: GET A JOB
STEP 3: GET OUTA Yo MOMA's Basement!
STEP 4: At least TRY to get a girl... but make sure you do the steps above FIRST.

If following these steps doesn't help you guys, I've lost all hope in you. I'm not trying to hate or anything... I'm just a person from the REAL WORLD, explaining to you how LIFE actually works outside of COMPUTER LAND.

Good bye and good day.

If any of you guys have any more questions, just reply.
 
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