So I just brokeup with my first real girlfriend; how do I get over it!?

[Shivastorm_88]

This is annoying hah. We had been dating for a year or so. We broke up this Sunday. Tuesday, I texted an old plate of mine, from before my GF, and we agreed to see each other for some good ole rebound sex. And yet, I am

1) Feeling guilty from that idea, I feel like I am cheating (yes, despite the fact that we broke up)
2) After we agreed to see each other, I literally felt sick to my stomach.

I don't know if it's simply because it hasn't been long enough, if my mind is still corrupted, or if I magically became grossed out from ONS, but this feeling is weird. And then, I have the obvious feeling that no one else will ever come remotely close to my ex, that I'll never meet a girl like her, yadi yada. Seriously, how do I get rid of these feelings?

And lastly, I feel terrified at the idea of approaching chicks. I had a few occasions, but my heart was racing like crazy

 

[Father Joseph]

Go and have a rebound bang, it will be freeing.

 

[TheException]

"the easiest way to overcome a woman is by busting a load on the face of a woman who is more attractive than your ex"

 

[mv.89]

You have deleted your ex's number from your phone right ?
So as the NC stays intact.

 

[RagingBalls]

Was it you that initiated the break-up? then i don't see it's any hard for you to get over with it, as you must've already felt a sigh of relief when you decided it's not working out between you and your gf. Same thing goes when you co-signed a break-up, it should free you emotionally and not the other way.
If you are having those feelings, then i can tell you have regrets ending the relationship that you think there's no other better woman than her, coz come to think of it, if no girl can compare to her, then why break-up with her? If that's the way your mind tells you, you need to carefully assess yourself if this is what you really think is best for you...seriously.
I don't think she dumped you so i can say it's you that initiated it and has the signs written all over your post that you can't move on because it is her that you wanted and that break-up was sloppy.

Plates would just fulfill your carnal desires, after busting a nut you'll just go back to where you are, forcing yourself to move on when you can fix it anyways.

You might be a prince wandering to a far far place looking for his princes, when your princess was just there, waiting for you to go back in her castle.

 

[Frogster]

The "No Contact Challenge" thread will help.

Also,

I seem to remember a "Fvck 10 chicks" thread that will make you see she's nothing special.

 

[goldengoose]

Hang out with your friends and enjoy yourself. Getting back in the saddle is important, but sometimes clearing your mind from a bad relationship is the best thing for you. After that you can start meeting up with new women. Don't do it when you're not feeling your best, get yourself together first. You'll be fine and you will find someone even better.