So I hooked up with this girl and now shes blowing me off.

[Pimp-sicle]

Very valid question and one I sure as hell didn't think of. I gave my ex Os everytime we had sex and kept her coming back after the break up lol. Though I think she did have an O. She was fidgeting and seizuring and she said it was "great". I try to make sure both teams go home with the gold. There was however some stuff I wasn't ready for like she wanted me to hit her really hard and fist her and stuff like violent beyond what I was prepared for. Then she put on Lesbian porn and she started pullin things out of my closest to smack her around with. I mean I think she was more interested in being dominated and I was more interested in regular sex. Though you could tell we both did things our "exs" liked and we were both like ohh idk about that, like she grabbed my balls with a vice grip . I thought she was gonna rip em off. and I had to change up my lick game on the fly.

LOL! Wow this chick sounds like she's got some ISSUES to say the least bro.

I'm all for experimentation in the bedroom and a girl that likes it rough a bit here and there is a turn on to any guy.

But the shiat she did and wanted to do? LOLL

Screws are loose in her head bro.

Pull back and she will chase if she truly is whacked in the head and if she doesn't you saved yourself from a major head-ache, trust me on that.









PIMP

 

[JT12]

Some people might be emotionally invested in my wacky story. So after two days of not talking to her she calls me up with the old "im sorry for not calling" "your a cool person and interesting and ETC" but I'm not interested in a relationship.

So basically she was like "I'm not interested in you but hey the hook up was cool"

Thats what i took away from that.

So i ended it with you don't need to explain yourself in anyway and your a cool person and i wasn't expecting anything anyway but if you wanna get together call me and then hung up right after I said that. That might have been slightly chumpish to say. Though I didn't really know what else to say.

 

[pdx1138]

it might have been slightly chumpish, but by leaving the opportunity open for her it's quite possible she will seek you out in the future for booty calls.

nothing wrong with that!

I did this as well one time.

Don't be at all surprised if you get a txt from her in a few weeks/months asking you to come over and satisfy her "needs."
Especially if you go ghost on her now (definitely do not contact her again, let her do it)

keep her as a plate that way..ya know?

Meanwhile, get some other, fresh tail!

 

[Solomon]

You will not always know why girls do such things. It could be all she wanted was a lay and nothing more. Her excuses seem lame. Leave it alone and let HER reach out to you. If she doesn't, you will know....she's done and doesn't want anything further relationship with you. Don't text her like a chick, that's unnecessary. Keep it cool, and her actions in the next few days will speak volumes.

This

It's always funny how guys over analyze and think OP did something wrong, maybe the girl just wanted some cawck. and not that OP became needy

I was in a similar situation just now chick showed high interest came over at midnight for first date to bang then went ghost. Except I called her out on it and it turned ugly.

There comes a point where the "Game" gets old