"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So I have a friend coming over

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So this girl I work with

first off she is FINE with a capital F

We have been friends for awhile at work. She lives with her boyfriend and she knows I have a girlfriend.

Well we were talking and she is coming over to my house. We are just going to chill. I'm going to do a little cooking. And that should be it.

Well heh, ofcourse I want to bang her but we are friends and I don't want to screw that up. She's really cool. I don't have many female "friends", but she's funny, great personality, and I can chill with her. Except she's FINE.

So what's up? Why is she accepting an invite to hang out at my HOUSE alone with me? Does she want to be friends or f-ck?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Haha, you lose dramatic points for having FINE with a capital F capitalized.


And you won't find out what she wants until you make a move, or gauge her interest, or something.
 
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Docs said:
Haha, you lose dramatic points for having FINE with a capital F capitalized.


And you won't find out what she wants until you make a move, or gauge her interest, or something.
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yeah man but she lives with her b/f and I work with her.

she did tell me i'm the funniest guy she knows.

if I hit on her and she rejects.. friendship goes bye bye and work is weird. I don't think i'm going to hit on her. Just hang out.
 
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