"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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so i have a date

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i got a bowling date tommorow with a girl who thinks i sound good and look good and wenever i text her or anything i always get a good response, but when i call her i cant seem to be natural on the fone, with girls i dont like i can talk for ages but when i do a different mentality kicks in.

she also hinted at being shy and that i will have to make her feel comfortable (couldnt think of a good reply to this)

i got her believing in all this mind reading stuff and asked her to think of a number between 1-10 and naturally it was 7 :p so then im like test me and she asks me what is she thinking of now, so me being a little ****y i go your thinking about me.

she replies... and like are the ... because im so ryt or so wrong and she was like ryt :D
i think i dropped some good lines though, i asked her what excites her in a man and she was like time will reveal everything :p. so i was like ok i bet i can read ur mind and that if i was going in the right direction to let me kno. so i just drop some random **** about how you want a guy who can make u feel safe and protected in his arms, she was saying ye, then i was like someone who can make u feel special even if you dont think so about yourself. she was like i dont feel special at all :(. then i was like someone who has a nice voice who can whisper sweet things into ur ear :p she was like ye thats all right,

then i go i was just describing myself there to see what u would say and she was loving it :p

now 2morow i gotta link up with her and go out using public transport, my questions are how am i gonna make her feel comfortable and not shy around me and will waiting for buses and that kill my game?

any advice would be good
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i know i wasnt thinking about it this much, then she started showing bare attention and i fell for her, so i decided to go out tonite with a different girl so im not thinking about 2morow
 
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