Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Has Pandora's box been opened? I fear it is possible.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Maybe they're still having sexHe either fvcked himself to death or they went to talk to a divorce attorney today. Only reason I can see for not posting an update lol
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
SMHOk, cool, its your life.
But, before I go let me tell you what happened to my child friend.
This was a guy i grew up with, decent looking and had a way with women. One day he met and fell in love with this beautiful bisexual woman. They eventually got married.
One day she suggested some side action, i advised him not to do it, because its a common way to get turned out. He didnt listen.
They started out doing threesomes, boy, girl, girl. He loved it..
However one day she wanted to try couples. All is well for a while, but then one day she suggested that he try it with the guy.
That was his first foray into bisexuality/ homosexuality. Eventually he decided that he liked dyck better than pusssy.
And now???
He has aids!!!
Any questions?
You're getting to be quite the humanitarian. I seem to recall another recent post where you were helping some other chick with mental problems or addiction problems or both. I wonder if anyone would be willing to help her if she wasn't female, and a hot one at that. I don't have to tell you some schizophrenics can be dangerous. If it was a guy, he probably would have ended up tasered on the ground.spent the last 2 days finding this girl we found at the hotel parking lot walking around who is mentally ill help. she wasd really really like, legit hot, but had probably schizophrenia.. i saw her when i was outside smoking a cig saturday morning taking a break when she almost ran into the street without looking because she was too busy dancing... had we left her there they would have raped her she was a legit 8, 23 years old.. or she would have killed herself. that pretty much ended the session. we found out where she lives and waited for someone to come get her.
Just for the record, the thought of her leaving for that dude never even crossed my mind. I object to the act on the face of it - for me. You can do what you like, of course. A lot of women have this bisexual curiousity you are alluding to, and the current culture only encourages it.if my wife wants to leave for the other dude she can go lol. i'll find someone else life will go on.
The old fella has a point and it's a fair warning.Ok, cool, its your life.
But, before I go let me tell you what happened to my child friend.
This was a guy i grew up with, decent looking and had a way with women. One day he met and fell in love with this beautiful bisexual woman. They eventually got married.
One day she suggested some side action, i advised him not to do it, because its a common way to get turned out. He didnt listen.
They started out doing threesomes, boy, girl, girl. He loved it..
However one day she wanted to try couples. All is well for a while, but then one day she suggested that he try it with the guy.
That was his first foray into bisexuality/ homosexuality. Eventually he decided that he liked dyck better than pusssy.
And now???
He has aids!!!
Any questions?
i've always had a big heart. read my post history. **** there is an ex prostitute i literally pulled from a pimp that is living in my extra bed room. i have been a big brother to a kid who is now 12 years old for the last 6 years he's basically my 2nd son. has a key to my house and everything. that **** isn't for show that's me. that will always be me. if i see something that i think is wrong and i think i can fix it i'm going to try. I know we like to talk about women and **** here but I was raised foreal in the churchYou're getting to be quite the humanitarian. I seem to recall another recent post where you were helping some other chick with mental problems or addiction problems or both. I wonder if anyone would be willing to help her if she wasn't female, and a hot one at that. I don't have to tell you some schizophrenics can be dangerous. If it was a guy, he probably would have ended up tasered on the ground.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I was thinking the same thing. Seems like a very dumb move but perhaps not surprising considering the source.This kind of activity is better left with a fuk buddy, or a chick you do not give a chit about..
Bit risky with your wifey..
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It's an incredibly dumb move. he's forgetting some key principles. never trust what a woman says. she may say she's feeling a particular way today but by tomorrow? she may feel completely different. you can say something like you want a double blow job but if you do it? now she's got ammo. hey, you had another chick, I want another guy. hell, she probably won't even tell you. and you know what? she's completely justified. once you break the plain of another woman and she knows it, all options are on the table, even nuclear. she may do something any way, but now you've officially given her all of the justification in the world. she's claimed the moral high ground and didn't even have to work for it. women love the moral high ground, now she doesn't have to feel bad about anything she does and can blame it all on someone else. that's like a giant piece of cake to a fat chick but one that has no calories, no fat and all of the taste of a fat filled, sugar filled tasty goodness. and no matter what type of pre-nup you have, if you have something, she's going to get something. think it wouldn't burn to see your kids having a good time with someone she's trying to replace you with? think again.I was thinking the same thing. Seems like a very dumb move but perhaps not surprising considering the source.
Unfortunately, that isn't how things work in the US. If she chooses to leave you, she will get half of your stuff, plus alimony since she is now unemployable thanks to a 10 year gap on her resume. You'd probably get stuck with child support too since most kids prefer to live with mom. There is basically no downside for a woman to leave and MASSIVE benefits.she drives a new mercedes and hasn't worked in 10 years almost to the day if she is willing to give all that up or risk her family that she has made than best of luck i'll move on. that's just how i live my life and it's worked.
IIRC, BB's wife is a trust fund baby, so she has her own income. That might get him out of the alimony. Might. You're right about the child support though. But they're not divorced yet.If she chooses to leave you, she will get half of your stuff, plus alimony since she is now unemployable thanks to a 10 year gap on her resume.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.