"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So i got this very hot girls number at a club/bar last night

Malex86

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Every guy had their eyes on her and quite a few approached...

Im the only one who was laid back, smiled and let her do her thing...

when i got my opportunity we spoke, i came across very cool and a cut above the other guys in the club...

then i went for my killer close with chicks like this...

"so i see your out having a good night, i won't ask you to get your phone out so i'll see you around"

to which she looks stunned and says "do you want my number"

and i said "if you want to.."

so she gave me her number and i say "look how about you take my number and you have a think about it.."

(i do this because i like women chasing)

she said "no if you want to call me, call me"

so anyway i call the next day (today) at 1pm while getting my car washed... no answer, but she may or may not know its me.

question is should i ring back around 7ish or text her to say "it's malex86 from last night... call me in an hour"

thing is i hate texting, takes away the element of surprise and voice tonality and quick witted charm...

opinions please fellow DJ's
 

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do not call her again. call her in a day or two when you got something fun going on.

"hey I met you at X the other night, I wanted to call you, Im doing xx on xx, lets have some fun blah blah"
 

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do not text....my charm, humor, wit could get girls wet in 5 min on the tele, its a done deal then trust me...you woo her with a 5 min convo of Malex86 pure dominance..the next time you see her she will be wet for you all night.
 

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Chromeo said:
do not call her again. call her in a day or two when you got something fun going on.

"hey I met you at X the other night, I wanted to call you, Im doing xx on xx, lets have some fun blah blah"
now don't roast me for this..

but i think with club pick ups like this; isnt it best to strike while the irons hot?

I mean all i did was establish i have stuff going for me and i'm a man of value to woo her in to give me her number...

there was no kissing, no deep conversation or anything so isnt it best i call later and perhaps next time leave a voicemail instead of texting.

if i contact her in a few days it's a bit like it's done and dusted...

and to be honest, i really a date with her and to **** her
 
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