"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So i got some blood drawn...

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and my bicep hurts and theres discoloration on my bicep and forearm. I had my blood taken a week ago yet my arm still hurts like a b*tch. Is this normal or what? I can understand it hurting but this is rediculous.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Shiftkey
The discoloration is normal, but the pain is not. I'd call your doctor.
My mom called them and they said it was normal and to put heat on it. Its gotten a little better but there are times when it gets pretty bad.
 

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It's normal a WEEK after the blood draw?? I'm no doctor, but it sounds like you have an infection. No small injury should be hurting for that long...

Maybe YOU should call your doctor because your mom probably left some parts out. You're 19, your mom shouldn't do something like this for you anyway.
 

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I fainted for a few seocnds 30 mins after, threw up a couple of times over the course of the afternoon, felt weak for about 6-7 days.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When I almost died from alchohol poisoning on new years they put a lot of needles in me so my arm hurt for a week but the pain went away eventually. The needle marks are still kinda visible which is scary but it's fading slowly. :woo:
 
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