"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So I got drunk dialed by this chick...

kalash74

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A girl I am interested in drunk dialed me a few days ago. She said some pretty drunken things, and wanted me to go to where she was and have sex with her. Unfortunately I was too inebreated to drive at that time.
My main question is how to handle this situation. Do I play it off like it didn't happen next time I see her?
Any advice from you DJ's is greatly appreciated.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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laugh at her next time.
 

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I guess the next time she saw/sees you she didn't react upon that topic right? It would be good fun to directly approach her and make some ****y comment that slightly embarrasses her, yet doesn't entirely disqualify her.

If I am right there's a saying: Drunk people are always staying a bit closer to the truth...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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next time you see her, say hi and ask her, "do you remember calling me?"
if she says yes, proceed to what the conversation was about.
if hse says no, tell her "it was a pretty interesting convo, to bad you don't remember it." smile and walk away.

Chances are she will remember bits and pieces of the conversation.
 
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