"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So I got drunk dialed by this chick...

kalash74

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A girl I am interested in drunk dialed me a few days ago. She said some pretty drunken things, and wanted me to go to where she was and have sex with her. Unfortunately I was too inebreated to drive at that time.
My main question is how to handle this situation. Do I play it off like it didn't happen next time I see her?
Any advice from you DJ's is greatly appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sexy_kuta

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laugh at her next time.
 

Grizou

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I guess the next time she saw/sees you she didn't react upon that topic right? It would be good fun to directly approach her and make some ****y comment that slightly embarrasses her, yet doesn't entirely disqualify her.

If I am right there's a saying: Drunk people are always staying a bit closer to the truth...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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next time you see her, say hi and ask her, "do you remember calling me?"
if she says yes, proceed to what the conversation was about.
if hse says no, tell her "it was a pretty interesting convo, to bad you don't remember it." smile and walk away.

Chances are she will remember bits and pieces of the conversation.
 
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