Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So I got an hand j0b last night

DJnoob

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I was with this milf last night. We cuddled in bed... and next thing u know we were grabbing each other's private parts. She was stroking my c0ck and I was groping and sucking on her nipples. I had my hand down her crouch but not her actual possy... Then it was getting late and she wanted to stop.. She said not yet.

She tells me she's not like other girls who I've been with.. etc etc

So, what to make of this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Have you ever been fishing with lures? Like in a lake?

It's a good idea to get a nice, attractive lure. One that looks like food. When you cast your lure into the water, you're supposed to let it sit there for a couple seconds.

So all the fish can notice it.

Then slowly start reeling it in. If you were smart with your lure purchase, you would have bought one that "spins" and sends out ripples underwater, further attracting fish.

Once you get a "bite," or a "nibble" freeze. Don't do anything.

You're trying to get the fish to "commit."

There are different strategies to get from a "nibble" to a "commit" from the fish. Some say freeze, and don't move.

Some say to slowly pull back, and make the fish follow you. You see, if the fish thinks the food (or what the poor fish thinks is food) is getting away he'll chase it more aggressively.

Anyhow, once the fish "commits" then pull back as hard as you can, "setting the hook."

See, hooks have these things called "barbs", so that when the metal digs into the fishes mouth (when he thought he was eating some kind of delicious food) the barbs go in, making it impossible to get loose.

This is when the fight begins.

And this is when you reel in your fish.

But don't get excited yet, because how you reel your fish in, how much it fights, and how much experience you have will all play a part in how likely you'll be able to "land" your fish.

Meaning you can take it home, kill it, gut it, and eat it.
 

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In cased you missed the metaphor, YOU'RE the fish, dude. And she's reeling you in.

She pulled back, hoping you'd chase. In order to do so, she gave you a compliment, suggesting you've got enough game to have slept with "all those girls."

Are you gonna bite? Let her set the hook?
 

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taiyuu_otoko said:
In cased you missed the metaphor, YOU'RE the fish, dude. And she's reeling you in.

She pulled back, hoping you'd chase. In order to do so, she gave you a compliment, suggesting you've got enough game to have slept with "all those girls."

Are you gonna bite? Let her set the hook?
yes, i stopped too and didn't proceed when she couldn't go on. I said "yeah thats fine if u don't want to,no pressure"
 
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