"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So I got a strippers number tonight.

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Not exactly sure how I did it, but I made it happen. She's a black girl (not usually my thing) but easily a HB8.5, amazing ass, pretty big tits and decent face with a slender body.

The whole idea of even hitting up the strip club was a spontaneous one sense me and my boys didn't have anything to do tonight, perhaps maybe that's why I was so confident because I had that "**** it, I'm just here to have fun" attitude. We pulled up and that girl was sitting outside (the girl I would later get a number from) and she was outside smoking with some other guy who was hitting on her. I smiled at her and said hello, how are you doing? And she replied positively and we went inside. I'm only 19 so I couldn't get any drinks so I just payed my admission fee and so did my friends and we went inside (this was my first time ever being in a strip club).

We took a seat towards the back. The game plan was to sit in the back until we saw a dancer we liked and then we would get up closer and tip. We sat back there awhile and there were lots of girls trying to butter us up. "Hey boys, why don't you sit up in the front?" "Would you like any drinks?" "Do you want a lap dance?" we kept denying but during every interaction we would be bull****ting and talking with them. The HB8.5 then comes up and says "What's the matter, there's tons of beautiful woman here why don't you go sit up front?" and I said "I'll go when I see one I like." then I asked her when she was going to dance and she said she was up next. I watched her dance the first time without tipping. When she got off stage I looked her straight in the eye and maintained strong eye contact so she came over. And we talked a little about her dance routine. She was on this crazy spinning thing and we were joking about how dizzy she gets when she does it. We were having a good convo and she then says she recognizes me from somewhere? So we exchange which schools we went to and stuff but no match, so she then her boss calls or something and she says she has to step outside. So I lightly touch her arm (kinoing her) and I smile and say okay have fun.

A few dances go by and I'm starting to get into a few other chicks. There was at least two I was pretty damn sure I could have fvcked if I tried hard enough. Anyway, home girl comes back up on stage and I sit myself right up in the front. This time I tip her and she does this crazy thing where she puts her head in between my legs then flips herself up so her ass in my face and then shakes it, it was awesome. She made a few other rounds then for some reason came back to me (I hadn't even tipped her again) and she sat in my lap and gave me a 30 second lapdance and we were talking back and forth. I said "Hey, so are you making a lot of money tonight?" she said "Yes, I am actually. It's still bother me, I know you from somewhere!" Notice, I made it absolutely clear that I just came to have a good time and knew they were there to make money and that this was there job with the "So are you making a lot of money tonight?" I actually said this to a few of the other girls and then they started becoming completely more reactive after that. I wish I could remember the exact dialogue, but we had a brief conversation and then I said "So whats your name by the way?" she replied and then I told her mine and we shook hands.

So the night keeps rolling, and she probably danced two more times after that and I didn't tip her anymore. But I made sure to tip the others, all the while maintaining a lot of eye contact with her and another stripper I was going for. The time comes where it's time to head out so I go to take a piss and I come out and I start talking to home girl again. She actually approached me, I was sitting down somewhere next to a curtain booth (not even realizing there were people behind me) and she comes up and grabs my hand and says "You probably shouldn't sit there, you might here some things" then we talked a little bit about what they do, what they can't do prices etc.. We are talking and the topic of getting ****ed up gets brought up (because one of my buddies happened to be stoned as sh!t) and she says she hates smoking but loves to drink, this was the perfect opportunity. "Well hey, why don't you come party with us sometime?" at first she reacted coldly and went back to the "I know you!" topic, then with a little further discussion we found out we both know a friend of a friend but I still am pretty sure I have never met her ever. Anyway, I think this made her feel comfortable with me, knowing we had a somewhat connected social circle, so I ask her for her number. She kinda looks away not really answering so I say "Or you can just take mine and.." then she says "Well, we're not allowed to take numbers. It's prostitution." "Oh." She then asks if I have a good memory, and tells me that her number rhymes and it's easy to remember. She tells me, and I repeat it a few times and we bull**** some more. Then a guy comes up and she starts talking to him, I knew it was my time to eject, I wasn't about to let her cold shoulder me like that so I said her name loudly and made her turn around and told her me and my boys were heading out and we exchanged hugs and then we left.

About 30 minutes later I actually called her (I didn't really give a fvck about breaking any DJ rules, I just did what I wanted) and I confirmed the number was legit. I told her I was pretty tired and had some things to do but I thanked her for the night I told her to punch me into her phone right this second. I even made her put an asterisk * next to my name because I'm "special" and she actually did it. So pretty much next weekend I think I'm going to hit her up. I'm pretty sure she isn't going to flake but who knows. I might call her doing the week to build a little more comfort and get her pvssy juices flowing for me again. But yeah.. I'm sorry if I am vague. I can't really remember the dialogue word for word, a lot happened tonight and a lot of words were exchanged. From all the conversations I had with everyone it's hard to keep on top of things. None the less, for a spontaneous random night this was extremely fun. I actually might hit up a strip club again sometime.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lose her number and never call her...strippers are the lowest type of women who's lives revolve around games......thats how they get paid...i've dated one and had a one night fling with another....there the bottom of women i promise..
 

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Whoah buddy. Who said I was going to date her? I'm just taking this situation with the same attitude as I did walking in there. If I fvck her, then I fvck her, if I don't then oh well, I'm not going to trip over it. I don't see any harm in having her come to one of our parties. I'm going to keep a close eye on my wallet, drugs and booze, but I do that anyway sense the people here are pretty scandalous.
 
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