nvictor
Senior Don Juan
Sanyo you did a good job. Keep on the good work. And remember never stop what you've started.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So I got a Date!, any last minute suggestions?
- Thread starter sanyo7878
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Well guys... I had my second date with this chick yesterday. Lets just put it this way... I didn't leave her house until 2:30 am. I took her out to eat and we rented a movie. When we got to her house I gave her several C + F lines that went over really well. I also made fun of her for a few things too. We sat down right next to each other on the couch. I didn't touch her for the first 30 minutes (i could tell she was wanting to be touched)... Then I put my arm around her and started caressing her and all that crap. That went on for about another 30 minutes. Then I went for the kiss (this was my first kiss of this type that I knew was going to lead to a make out session). We kissed for a while and felt on each other for a few minutes. I then went in for the boob feel. She liked it. She was rubbing my leg pretty good at this point. One thing led to another and we ended up making out for like 3 hours. She gave me a hand job off and on for about and hour and a half. The problem is that she would only do it for like 2 minutes and then she would stop for like 15 so I never came. I massaged her pvssy through her pants for a while and then unbuttoned them and massaged directly. I don't think she would have fvcked me. I kept thinking she was going to give me head because she kept looking at my **** (kind of freaked me out a little to be honest). And then things wound up and I went home.
I'm afraid this girl is the clinger type. She has already sent me txt messages today saying she wants to do it again. So I guess I'll call her tonight and set something up for this weekend. Also, I guess I better go buy some condoms. Another thing is that she is moving out of my city in 4 months.
Any questions/comments/suggestions?
I'm afraid this girl is the clinger type. She has already sent me txt messages today saying she wants to do it again. So I guess I'll call her tonight and set something up for this weekend. Also, I guess I better go buy some condoms. Another thing is that she is moving out of my city in 4 months.
Any questions/comments/suggestions?
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
Its cool if u didnt bust that nut, as long as u had a good time it doesnt matter, dont put 2 much pressure on that nut just have a good time.
i dont got suggestions cause u seem to be doin ok yourself.
I will say though idk if she is clingy or not but if your gut feeling is that she is, then she most likely is. So you gotta ask yourself, is that the type of girl you want. btw no need to always ask us if we have any suggestions, you are doing just fine on your own, keep it up. Last thing u need is some keyboard jockey telling you to do something and it f ucks it all up.
good luck hope it works out for ya
i dont got suggestions cause u seem to be doin ok yourself.
I will say though idk if she is clingy or not but if your gut feeling is that she is, then she most likely is. So you gotta ask yourself, is that the type of girl you want. btw no need to always ask us if we have any suggestions, you are doing just fine on your own, keep it up. Last thing u need is some keyboard jockey telling you to do something and it f ucks it all up.
good luck hope it works out for ya
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