So i get back from this date rite...

[CoolCat5191]

haha today and an old freind and i decided to meet up with eachother at a movie theature. Ive made pretty well progress with her like alot to the point we automatically flirt. So i arrive and she brings her other friends, she said she was gunna bring one. this was a suprise but i thought it was no big deal cuz the other girl could talk to the other girl that arrive while i isolate the girl im seeing. so we are in the scarry movie talking when the good parts come on and i start to make fun of her how she is al scarred and imatate her voice. We start to flirt and such and have a very fun convo. once i start using the kino she starts to lightly hit me back in a freindly way and play with her hair alot. we leave the movie laugh some more and go into a strip mall to wait for her freinds mom to pick them all up. i was kinda pissed becasue i wanted her to stay longer but she had to go becasue it was her only ride back. so i start to make fun of her in a friendly way sitting next to her on a bench and telling her that i wanna see her sandals (becasue i threw the one in front of the screen durring the movie (she thought funny). We get really close to eachother on the bench almost like we were gunnna make out because i could tell she deffinatly wanted to. So instead i though i rather wait till next time to hook up becasue it will make her think "Why didnt he make out with me" "Was there something wrong with me" making her want it even more. wat do u think about this? Did i do anything wrong? thanks

 

[danielzxc]

We get really close to eachother on the bench almost like we were gunnna make out because i could tell she deffinatly wanted to. So instead i though i rather wait till next time to hook up becasue it will make her think "Why didnt he make out with me" "Was there something wrong with me" making her want it even more. wat do u think about this? Did i do anything wrong? thanks

Firstly, if you 'made her wait' because you WANTED to, then fine. But if you only did it because you were SCARED to kiss her, then not so good.

Secondly, if she asks herself "was there something wrong with me?", it's possible the answer she will give herself is "yes!". Chicks, just like guys, can have low self-esteem, and give themselves low grades on how they "performed". This might make her AVOID you in the future, just so that she doesn't have to experience the same kind of "rejection" again.

Of course, on the other hand, maybe it makes you look like more of a challenge, so she gets turned on even more.

Point is, there are no easy answers to this kind of stuff.

My opinion, it's not always the easy thing to do, but since we can never really know for sure what's gonna happen (or what she's gonna think), I think we should take action and escalate at every opportunity. So, in this case, I think you made a mistake -- you should have kissed her right then when you had the chance.

 

[CoolCat5191]

haha thanks but she knows im already a challenge and she said she wanted to hang out next weekend too. She knows im very open and not prude. plus she had just broken up with her bf so im taking it a little slower too. When we were close i was giving her the idea (purposly) so she would want to even more.

 

[flows101]

nooooo she's just goner think your a sexual dud mate unless you did A LOT OF KINO and made a statement of intent like said there was something "sexy" about her, I think you should of kissed her in the middle of the date then pulled away.