I dated a married woman, same sort of deal you outlined in the original post.
You have to determine very quickly what kind of situation you want to be in with this woman. You are asking personal questions and if you are not her man, she doesnt have to answer. If she does you have to take that like a man. You telling her "this is the same guy that manipulated you" that is messed up to say. She went through it and is now kicking it with you.
If you are digging the girl, that's great. My advice (considering this is only my second post) is enjoy the present time with her. Do your best not to think nor talk about the past life of hers unless she brings it up and actually asks for your advice. A quick way to get yourself 86'ed with a girl is her thinking you are judging her.
You have to determine very quickly what kind of situation you want to be in with this woman. You are asking personal questions and if you are not her man, she doesnt have to answer. If she does you have to take that like a man. You telling her "this is the same guy that manipulated you" that is messed up to say. She went through it and is now kicking it with you.
If you are digging the girl, that's great. My advice (considering this is only my second post) is enjoy the present time with her. Do your best not to think nor talk about the past life of hers unless she brings it up and actually asks for your advice. A quick way to get yourself 86'ed with a girl is her thinking you are judging her.