AFC_Schism
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 30, 2009
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Here's the convo:
Me: Random question, but does your crazy ex boyfriend still text you every and now and then?
Her: He's not crazy. But yeah we like randomly talk, not much. Im not trying to get back into that or anything or mess with someone that manipulative.
Me: Wait... you guys still randomly talk?
Her: Like really random. Like I havent talked ot hi mat all in a few weeks and if we do its about how we dont like certain people cuz we used to be in the same group and stuff.
Me: I see. So after he manipualted you, after what he did to you, you still talk to him?
Her: It's not any sort of big deal at all... like i said its literally random texts like he'll say something (name) or one of hte guys and ill agree. Not like hes really back into my life.
This is the same boyfriend that she went out with for 6 months, would ignore her when they were out in public together, would flirt with other girls in front of her, and even after he broke up with her he kept her around for 3 months just for sex and she kept going back to him. I remember asking her about him and why she did it and she told me "its like an abused puppy always going back to their owner" and I just ignored it. He is the very definition of manipulative and she's told me so many horror stories about him. And now I find out that they're still talking. And worse yet, she DEFENDS him and says "oh he's not crazy".
Is this a major red flag?
Me: Random question, but does your crazy ex boyfriend still text you every and now and then?
Her: He's not crazy. But yeah we like randomly talk, not much. Im not trying to get back into that or anything or mess with someone that manipulative.
Me: Wait... you guys still randomly talk?
Her: Like really random. Like I havent talked ot hi mat all in a few weeks and if we do its about how we dont like certain people cuz we used to be in the same group and stuff.
Me: I see. So after he manipualted you, after what he did to you, you still talk to him?
Her: It's not any sort of big deal at all... like i said its literally random texts like he'll say something (name) or one of hte guys and ill agree. Not like hes really back into my life.
This is the same boyfriend that she went out with for 6 months, would ignore her when they were out in public together, would flirt with other girls in front of her, and even after he broke up with her he kept her around for 3 months just for sex and she kept going back to him. I remember asking her about him and why she did it and she told me "its like an abused puppy always going back to their owner" and I just ignored it. He is the very definition of manipulative and she's told me so many horror stories about him. And now I find out that they're still talking. And worse yet, she DEFENDS him and says "oh he's not crazy".
Is this a major red flag?