"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So I find myself sitting at home, with no desire to go out.

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tick37

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Hey now, I'm going to post some sh1t here that you need to read.

Ok, you're looking at life and the world through a tunnel.

You want validation, but you've already accepted the fact that you won't get it.

Go out and just have the mindset that you want to have fun. Don't look for women. Don't look for strength. Just look for a good time and try to be the LIFE of the party.

Once the chicks see how much fun you are (even the guys), you will have a wonderful circle of friends. You will have chicks wanting you so bad.

STOP playing xbox for a little while. Play it occasionally. Build up a circle of friends and let it expand. Do not be a recluse.

We love you, man. We want you to thrive. We want you to EXCEL!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The car thing may seem a little materialistic, but keep in mind that one of my hobbies will soon be modifying them, making them look nice and feel nice, so I can't really help it.

I've been reading the DJ Bible and that's been helping out tremendously. Now I'm not too worried about staying at home, I'm actually excited to get back to school so I can game on the chicks in my class :)
 
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Vice said:
The car thing may seem a little materialistic, but keep in mind that one of my hobbies will soon be modifying them, making them look nice and feel nice, so I can't really help it.

I've been reading the DJ Bible and that's been helping out tremendously. Now I'm not too worried about staying at home, I'm actually excited to get back to school so I can game on the chicks in my class :)
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That's the spirit :)

I'm feeling the same way right now. Spring break is over, time to find some girls
 
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Your problem is you complain too much.

For example, you say your car is a piece of sh*t... well, I'd be happy to own a car, ANY car. Even it it has a million miles on it and an open floor, Flinstones style. but I can't afford a car.
 
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