"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So I did Xtacy for a girl...

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Yeah I know stupid but I tell you what I learned alot of things from that and it wasn't pretty.

If you're bored and have a few minutes to read here's the story..

Me and this girl have been friends for about a year and we always hang out with the same party group. Unfortunately this party group parties with E all the times.
I have been strong enough throught all those times to say no to E ( I used to party 5 years ago and have stopped). So this last Sunday, this chick and I hung out and went to a friend's for an after hours party. Throughout the whole night she was flirting with me and teasing the hell out of me.

I admit I have been infatuated with her for a while, she's tall, skinny and I'd say an 8. She and a few other friend kinda pressured me to drop E that night. I guess I thought that it would be my chance to get to be closer to her ( yeah I know dumb) and make something happen.

So I took a pill and some G liquid stuff. :(

I wasn't ready for the strong hit but I was flying for the next 4 hours!!

While we were all hanging out in the garage all of us being high, one of the guy pulled out a lighter and playefully showed us that he was high and could stand the pain of the fire under his finger.

We all told him to stop, which he did. Then the girl said " hey let's see how high is Joe (me) and put the lighter under his hands" We were all kinda shocked and say NO!

I couldn't believe my ears, I guess when you're high on E the truth comes out. So that was strike one on her part.

Then later another girl showed up and she showed interest in me. As soon as the first girl saw that, she commenced a campaign to attempt to control me and get my attention. Telling me to come with her, follow her ect.

Which I didn't appreciate because I knew that the only reason why she now finally gives me attention is because she had competition.

So after the 2nd girl left, she just kinda forgot about me, and continued to party on. Another thing that really disgusted me was that she always talks about staying away from drugs but she's the one who actually brings it out. She brought out shroom and was pushing everyone to do it including me.

She was trying her hardest to get me to do shrooms. Which even though I was f.. up was smart enough to say NO!

Then to put icing on the cake, as I was coming down, I started to be in major pain. With no sleep since Saturday it was now Sunday 2pm and I was hurting.

All the other girls that were there helped me out and while that damn b**ch was more concerned about trying to convince this guy to go back home with her and get more shroom. Which she did accomplish.

Anyways, I'm still recovering from that night from doing the E and I swear I'll never do it again. One moment of weakness and I got owned.

Something good did come out of that, on the way out of that hell hole, I ran into one of the girls that did not do E and we had a talk and she was kind enough to help me recover. SHe's not hot like that other girl but I'd choose to respect her and kindly treat this one over that evil witch.

Sorry for the rant but I need to let this out. :(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bonez

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nice story ;)

Sounds like you were still shy when you were high. ****ty for you.
 

Phyzzle

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One moment of weakness and I got owned.
I think you had a cool experience. And free shrooms.

Word of advice: yes, you can sometimes 'hook up' because of X, but that hook up disappears in about 4 hours anyhow. You didn't miss any opportunity here.

Then later another girl showed up and she showed interest in me. As soon as the first girl saw that, she commenced a campaign to attempt to control me and get my attention.
"Don't worry sweetheart, there's enough of me to go around. I'll get back to you." You should look at every party like this as an opportunity to just interact - it's going to the gym, but for people skills instead of muscles.

I think you learned to not be focused on any one girl mentally at these soire's.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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