"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I went to a fake Facebook account to see why my dude blocked. And I saw a pic of my ex (I had his number could have text him) any way I see her all over this dude And it made me upset I want to text her so bad and try to be nice. I've been reading the art of seduction and think I might try to seduce her any way I just deleted that fake account I won't be contacting her even though I really want to. Psychologically I think I just want to make up to her to show her I'm a good guy she lost. But I know that is just insecurity in myself so tomorrow I'm going to go pay my lawyer and get to see my daughter. I'll get past my ummm girl loneliness
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ruler said:
Wtf? Stop, just stop it. Get rid of this woman from your life. Move on. She doesn't want you and you don't REALLY want her. It's just your ego / insecurities clouding your judgement. Focus on other things in life besides women.
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It is the ego but I am an honest person I forgot about the fake profile and it's deleted. I'll keep bettering myself because. That's what I set my mind too you guys are the only people I talk too about her
 
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OP, we have all been in your shoes brother and its not easy. The good news is it gets easier. Take advantage of this forum for long enough, practice what we discuss here in real life, and stay the course. You will go from a woman dumping you, having your heart broken, seeing them with a new guy and you trolling them on FB.... To you dumping them first, moving on and not giving 2 sh|ts, and having the one you just tossed chase after you wanting you back. And your bull pin will be ready with the next HB. Total opposite of your current situation. Once you learn enough you will never get dumped again because you will always end it first when women start showing you bad signs like declining interest level, inexcuseable disrespect, possible unfaithfulness, BPD traits, indications of wanting you for a sugar daddy, etc, etc.. Women give off volumes of signs that tell us men bad things are going to happen, but most men dont know how to read them or their heart takes over and they blatently ignore them thinking things will change.. Learning this game to save yourself is golden. Hang in there man.
 
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logicallefty said:
OP, we have all been in your shoes brother and its not easy. The good news is it gets easier. Take advantage of this forum for long enough, practice what we discuss here in real life, and stay the course. You will go from a woman dumping you, having your heart broken, seeing them with a new guy and you trolling them on FB.... To you dumping them first, moving on and not giving 2 sh|ts, and having the one you just tossed chase after you wanting you back. And your bull pin will be ready with the next HB. Total opposite of your current situation. Once you learn enough you will never get dumped again because you will always end it first when women start showing you bad signs like declining interest level, inexcuseable disrespect, possible unfaithfulness, BPD traits, indications of wanting you for a sugar daddy, etc, etc.. Women give off volumes of signs that tell us men bad things are going to happen, but most men dont know how to read them or their heart takes over and they blatently ignore them thinking things will change.. Learning this game to save yourself is golden. Hang in there man.
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In full agreement...

I met a very hot girl (believe I posted about her) who it seemed wanted me just for the fact I could put a roof over her head, I quickly dropped her once I picked up on that.

Op, you want to qualify girls yourself. It's not about proving yourself to the girl. Do you have a connection to her? Do you genuinely like her for her? Does she respect you and like you for you at the same time?

This is what matters...
 
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In full agnt...

I met a very hot girl (believe I posted about her) who it seemed wanted me just for the fact I could put a roof over her head, I quickly dropped her once I picked up on that.
We have a baby together but i
Op, you want to qualify girls yourself. It's not about proving yourself to the girl. Do you have a connection to her? Do you genuinely like her for her? Does she respect you and like you for you at the same time?

This is what matters...
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We have a baby together I will leave her alone if there's one thing I learned is move with aggression and be self possessed. Does she respect me no I think she still loves me because she doesn't want me to see my daughter she wants me to hurt but there's no point in working things out with her because I really don't respect or love her
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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