“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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so i asked out this receptionist

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Ive seen her every friday for the last 3 or 4 weeks. I was always in my adidas workout shyt.

So i walk in and shes all smiles...greets me by my name. She knows im picking up my check.

So today i dressed nicely....just simple, but dress shoes and all.
I asked her if she noticed anything new about me....she says yea, ur not in workout gear.

So i smile and say, yea i couldnt ask u out in my workout stuff. I ask for her number, she still smiles and says give me urs.

Im all ok...not a good sign. So i change the subjects and ask what shes doing this weekend...some crap and rock climbing with her friend. I light up and give her a high five. Then i say, thats why i want ur number so we can go for a jog at this nice area.

She doesnt budge and insists i give her mine.

Ok i oblige, wich i never do, but f it. As im giving her the piece of paper i say, if u dont call its no big deal, but i woukd like it if u did,

She says cool and her friend comes straight to her desk and blah blahs with her, so i just leave.

As im leaving, i hear her friend say, are u going to see him again.

Now i know im over thinking this part, but knowing how chicks are, is it an inside convo, like her friend knew i was asking her out? Making my girl look more desirable.

Also, it was kinda rude for her hot friend to just barge in like that at her desk.

Ill never know these hot phillies....

I would like your guys input.

I mean, i felt pretty pimp just trying to get her panties wet, maybe too forward, maybe not.

But maybe she only likes to look at my macho sexyness like i like looking at girls.

Lets hear it brahs
 

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And I'm willing to wager $1000 she never called you.

If you ask a woman for her number, she says no, but asks for yours instead, you have failed. But she'll enjoy your attention (like she did here) as long as you are just a friend (beta orbiter). You showed desperation by asking for her number more than once.

Women who are interested will show by their actions they want to see you. They will even blow up a mountain to see you!

Alas, she ain't interested. Move on.

Case closed.
 

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She's not going to call you.

Next time if something like this happens don't pursue the matter any further.

When a woman doesn't give you her number but asks for your number it's code for "Not interested!".

Or my favorite one "Just add me on facebook!". Yea when you get this one it's the same as above.

Good try tho brah brah!!!:flowers:
 

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I like you nismo...i always have, ever since i lurked on here.

Shell enjoy my attention. ..im fine with that. I was blatantly giving it to her like i do to every woman i see. It helps me approach all of them, even the HB2s. If they smile then its all good.

I showed desperation by asking more than once...yes and no.

Im currently less attractive than i have been, and know that ive been better and had better. For sure bro.

I just thought maybe my personality might get me dates. Silly me!

Charismo...you are 100% right. And you showed me the facts with charisma. Imagine that! Lol


Lets hope she doesnt call so i learn my lesson.


Wait, that seems too pessimistic.

Lets hope she texts, while im enjoying my next few years of my life.
 

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But seriously...her friend just barging in the convo felt rude and childish...do hot girls think yhey rule guys's world.

I did not say goodbye, as i had known i did fail witjout the number, but that was like super rude to the point that her pretty friend had no ass at all, and i might have overlooked it had she acknowledged me, but now after the fact, i do notice her flaws, big time.


I THINK IM TOO HUNG UP ON PERSONALITY NOWADAYS.

i gotta go back to just working out by day and approaching slvts

Neither makes me happy, except the working out part.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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