"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So I am working on approaching girls in school...

crossboss

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So how often should you approach them when you see them? I try to not approach all time...Maybe I'd approach about 75% of the time I see them. Is this too much???
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tear Gas

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you mean you approach a girl after the first time? approach her once, fluff talk/gain rapport, ask her to hangout, get digits > date

unless she's in your class or something you can just talk to her everyday then ask her for coffee/lunch whatever
 
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ill tell you right now - i never ****ed a girl that i approached from school..........its much easier to **** hottie that u have no social connections with
 

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School as in college? I approach if she's cute-hot. Sometimes i approach then realize i'm not attracted to her then eject. Kind of fuked up, but w/e. Whenever you feel like.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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