"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alright...never been in this kinda predicament before...but Nikki Sixx is spitting game on my girl!! WTF!? Am i screwed??? lol...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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and? if your **** isn't in order don't take your girl out in public.

if you have done your job right she isn't going anywhere. even if she does.. sarge on!
 

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backbreaker said:
and? if your **** isn't in order don't take your girl out in public.

if you have done your job right she isn't going anywhere. even if she does.. sarge on!
No doubt!

But if i were to lose my girl...hey might as well be to a Rockstar! lol..
 

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that's the way to think about it.

A while ago, maybe 2 years ago, Nelly actually was gaming the hell out of my GF at the time (the black girl int he pic). she thought he was cute but she wasn't going to do anything with him. I let him go ahead. fuvck if you can take her go ahead.
 

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backbreaker said:
that's the way to think about it.

A while ago, maybe 2 years ago, Nelly actually was gaming the hell out of my GF at the time (the black girl int he pic). she thought he was cute but she wasn't going to do anything with him. I let him go ahead. fuvck if you can take her go ahead.

Crazyness!

It's definatly the true test of how devoted your girl is to you!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i mean. if she leaves she leaves. what can you do? no point in getting up in arms about **** you can't contorl.

I knew I had my GF on a string however.. she wasn't going anywhere. she knew it, I knew it
 
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