"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alright...never been in this kinda predicament before...but Nikki Sixx is spitting game on my girl!! WTF!? Am i screwed??? lol...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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and? if your **** isn't in order don't take your girl out in public.

if you have done your job right she isn't going anywhere. even if she does.. sarge on!
 

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backbreaker said:
and? if your **** isn't in order don't take your girl out in public.

if you have done your job right she isn't going anywhere. even if she does.. sarge on!
No doubt!

But if i were to lose my girl...hey might as well be to a Rockstar! lol..
 

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that's the way to think about it.

A while ago, maybe 2 years ago, Nelly actually was gaming the hell out of my GF at the time (the black girl int he pic). she thought he was cute but she wasn't going to do anything with him. I let him go ahead. fuvck if you can take her go ahead.
 

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backbreaker said:
that's the way to think about it.

A while ago, maybe 2 years ago, Nelly actually was gaming the hell out of my GF at the time (the black girl int he pic). she thought he was cute but she wasn't going to do anything with him. I let him go ahead. fuvck if you can take her go ahead.

Crazyness!

It's definatly the true test of how devoted your girl is to you!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i mean. if she leaves she leaves. what can you do? no point in getting up in arms about **** you can't contorl.

I knew I had my GF on a string however.. she wasn't going anywhere. she knew it, I knew it
 
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