So how true is this????

[CapedCrusader08]

I found this while looking around. This is what has gotten me angry and confused about alot of things,and I would just like some,I don't know,validation on the whole thing. Isn't this as a whole,one of the things they talk about when they say "avoiding the matrix" ???

So I became friends with a guy recently and got talking about women, girlfriends, relationships, etc. He was the youngest of 4 children, having 3 older sisters, and told me that his sisters and almost all girls he knew when growing up went through a slut phase, like around 16 - 20, where they pretty much slept with as many guys as they could get away with doing. I was shocked at first, but he was pretty sure like, "Hey man, I've got 3(!) older sisters*, I know what they're like." After this phase though they want to settle down with a 'perfect' steady boyfriend, and they're tastes become immensely more picky, as they try and hunt him down.

After considering what he told me and my past experience and knowledge of girls/women, I got to thinking that this actually made sense, and seemed like the truth.

So there it is guys: if you're still a young guy get out there get those hunnies while they're young and hot.

Tragically, this only enforces the idea that Cash and stuff have been throwing around, that once a guy is past like 21 and still is virgin then things may have already gone terribly downhill... yup in this fast-paced and modern world guys like us get played and left behind quick, once again thanx to my fxkt-up parents and their stoic, old-fasioned and neglectful ways.

*actually it seems the guy could've been gay, which I also think has to do with his 3 sisters... like the more (young) feminine attention a boy gets when he's younger the more likely he is to turn out gay? And the less attention, the more likely he is to turn into a randy, sexaholic womaniser? But that's another topic.

 

[CapedCrusader08]

Well,how does one avoid this? This is what they mean when they say,they being men,they don't want to be the one settled for right? you work hard,get to that point,only to marry someone who,Idk,is using the right word,using you? I mean,I am coming to grips with the concern that maybe I have some sort of emotional imaturity. I feel extremely lonely and empty. I always saw getting married and starting a family as a good thing. But,I feel I have so far to go,even in terms of finding someone,that it just seems like an option further down the list.

 

[CapedCrusader08]

I must say,after finding this sight,I am probably more aware of manipulative tactitcs used by women. But,I worry it may have gotten to the point where instead of even trying to approach or converse,I avoid them all together,or even when one is sitting right next to me,I can't begin a conversation. Oh sure,if someone talks to me,I am all ears and eager to talk. I feel I may be a bit attention starved.

As for building an empire,that's another concern I have. I feel I haven't really worked toward's anything. Educationally,or otherwise,as in succeeding outsite of the educational system,yes,it happens, I have had a job for 3 years,which has it's benefits,but I feel perhaps I have gotten too reliable on it,possibly due to personal problems. One of the reasons I have felt rather depressed is due to a lack of fungoing,party,bang all the chicks lifestyle,something I feel I have missed out on,so my sense of reality may be skewered,it could be an emotional maturity thing as well.

 

[Duffdog]

I must say,after finding this sight,I am probably more aware of manipulative tactitcs used by women. But,I worry it may have gotten to the point where instead of even trying to approach or converse,I avoid them all together,or even when one is sitting right next to me,I can't begin a conversation. Oh sure,if someone talks to me,I am all ears and eager to talk. I feel I may be a bit attention starved.

As for building an empire,that's another concern I have. I feel I haven't really worked toward's anything. Educationally,or otherwise,as in succeeding outsite of the educational system,yes,it happens, I have had a job for 3 years,which has it's benefits,but I feel perhaps I have gotten too reliable on it,possibly due to personal problems. One of the reasons I have felt rather depressed is due to a lack of fungoing,party,bang all the chicks lifestyle,something I feel I have missed out on,so my sense of reality may be skewered,it could be an emotional maturity thing as well.

The most memorable thing I ever heard from a female was when I was younger and inexperienced. I thought that she was this innocent christian girl, but after I got done nailing her she looked up and said: "You didn't actually think that girls thought about pink clouds and bunnies all day did you? We are hornier than you are"

 

[CapedCrusader08]

Maybe that's it. Maybe I have some issues with female sexuality.Maybe because to me,if it's something out of my control,it's bad and she's a slut. Or,I am just oblivious to the signs. But like what you said,how come that didn't happen for me? How come I didn't and still don't have the girls wanting me to be banging them and getting horny for me? this is my dillemma it feels like.

Or,I have a trouble finding balance,or becoming this quality man that is talked about. I mean,I guess I have this balance,or maybe even split persona,when it comes to the jerk/nice guy thing. I never really treated girls like princesses,hell,there were times when I was flat out mean to girls growing up,but wasn't exactly the nice guy either. Or maybe the said girls I was talking about,have daddy issues as well.

I also wonder if I have attention/approval issues,seing as I have been known to keep going back to people even when they have made fun of me before.

 

[SXS]

Maybe that's it. Maybe I have some issues with female sexuality.Maybe because to me,if it's something out of my control,it's bad and she's a slut. Or,I am just oblivious to the signs. But like what you said,how come that didn't happen for me? How come I didn't and still don't have the girls wanting me to be banging them and getting horny for me? this is my dillemma it feels like.
Or,I have a trouble finding balance,or becoming this quality man that is talked about. I mean,I guess I have this balance,or maybe even split persona,when it comes to the jerk/nice guy thing. I never really treated girls like princesses,hell,there were times when I was flat out mean to girls growing up,but wasn't exactly the nice guy either. Or maybe the said girls I was talking about,have daddy issues as well.
I also wonder if I have attention/approval issues,seing as I have been known to keep going back to people even when they have made fun of me before.

Dont worry, my friend, you just need a little patience. How old are you know ? There are still a lot of time. There are plenty of people who can help you get on on those issues. Just stop being naive and try to see the wolrd as it is. Get friends whom you can go out with. You get there.

 

[Smartone84]

I'd say girls tend to snap out of the stuck up/slutty phase at about 27 years old

 

[SXS]

Also, not all girls are sluts...

 

[DonGorgon]

LIVE BY THESE RULES:

WOMEN = They dont settle down until they are dead, (there are many men desperate enough to shag a 90 year old...) YOU WILL NEVER KNOW ALL THE SLUTTING THAT YOUR WIFE/GIRLFRIEND HAS DONE cause there is nothing for hr to gain by her telling you those things.

MEN = They Don't settle down until Viagra stops working for them. As long as a man can get hard he will try to F as many women as he can... even if he is old and sick.

 

[DonGorgon]

Also, not all girls are sluts...

The percentage of women that never go through a slut phase is so small that using that figure to base ur modus on is incredibly silly...

ALL WOMEN HAVE AN INNER HO/SLUT THAT WILL COME OYUT TO PLAY EVERY NOW AND THEN... but if you dont know then it didnt happen did it...!?!?!?

 

[2.0]

So any guy with 3 sisters must be gay!?

Of all the ridiculous things I've read on this forum...

 

[DonGorgon]

Yup, right about when their looks start to fade.

Only true depending on the level of male desperation in their geographic location.... eg. in atlanta GA there are 20 men to each women so anyone with a vagina pretty much has plenty power to pick and choose and reject....

 

[Solomon]

Only true depending on the level of male desperation in their geographic location.... eg. in atlanta GA there are 20 men to each women so anyone with a vagina pretty much has plenty power to pick and choose and reject....

MMh I thought in the "A" it was 8 chicks to one dude, also ATL has one of the highest gay male population in the nation.....

 

[DonGorgon]

MMh I thought in the "A" it was 8 chicks to one dude, also ATL has one of the highest gay male population in the nation.....

Let me let you in on some of atlanta's dirty little secrets that many men dont learn till they move here an its too late...

1. Atlanta now has 20 men to each woman. Go out to any social setting on friday and saturday night and you will see... back in 1996 atlanta had a good balance but once the city became very popular too many men moved here leading to over population hence why there are so many stripclubs and prostitutes in this city.. most of the women moving here now are moving her for profit cause desperate men here are willing to pay much more for women than in many other places..

2. Atlanta has the largest "convenience gay" population! this means that many of the "gay" men in this city tend to date men when they cannot find women, so they are actually bi-sexual.. go to any mall and watch all the women parading around with their flamboyantly gay husbands an, boyfriends and baby dadies... you will be amazed shocked and disgusted.

3. Dont move here if you are married or in an LTR cause even if your girl is only a 5 or 6 she will get more attention from men than ever before in her life... and these men will offer her money and gifts every day and eventually she will cheat an leave you...

 

[DonJuan11]

So I became friends with a guy recently and got talking about women, girlfriends, relationships, etc. He was the youngest of 4 children, having 3 older sisters, and told me that his sisters and almost all girls he knew when growing up went through a slut phase, like around 16 - 20, where they pretty much slept with as many guys as they could get away with doing. I was shocked at first, but he was pretty sure like, "Hey man, I've got 3(!) older sisters*, I know what they're like." After this phase though they want to settle down with a 'perfect' steady boyfriend, and they're tastes become immensely more picky, as they try and hunt him down.

After considering what he told me and my past experience and knowledge of girls/women, I got to thinking that this actually made sense, and seemed like the truth.

So there it is guys: if you're still a young guy get out there get those hunnies while they're young and hot.

Tragically, this only enforces the idea that Cash and stuff have been throwing around, that once a guy is past like 21 and still is virgin then things may have already gone terribly downhill... yup in this fast-paced and modern world guys like us get played and left behind quick, once again thanx to my fxkt-up parents and their stoic, old-fasioned and neglectful ways.

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Before you date, you have to learn how to spell properly. Girls won't sleep with you if you can't spell better than a 5th grader.

If it makes you feel good to blame your parents for your own short-comings, keep doing it.

If it makes you feel good to blame your parents and friends, and relatives and teachers that the tests in school were too hard and the girls didn't kiss you when you wanted, keep doing it.

If you makes you feel good to keep complaining you can't get laid or get a date, keep doing it.

If you makes you feel good to keep starting the same type of thread over, and over, and over, and over, and over again, because you feel we are your therapists, keep doing it. Be careful though, you could get banned.

 

[CapedCrusader08]

I spell just fine. I blame no one but myself. I wake up everyday, I try to feel good, but any sort of self esteem/confidence/worth,desirability,worthiness,etc, just goes down the drain. Perhaps I am not as emotionally strong as I would like to be.

I can't help but be bothered by this. Everyday, I am surrounded by people "in love", talking about they're sex lives, and I am they're hoping someone notices me. I am at school right now. I get easily angered by this. I don't know why. It's like I don't know how to be the person I want to be. I am not happy. I don't know, maybe it's a vibe I give off. Maybe I am suffering from anxiety or paranoia.

 

[Warrior74]

What did I tell you about spewing that 'woe is me shyt'?. I'm done talking to your dumb ass. You are too dumb to follow instructions and you wonder why no one will help you and why your life won't change. You are too stupid to actually do the things people tell you to do. Good luck.

If you really want to know how to fix your problems, go to www.zenmack.com and talk to Player Supreme. He can let you know exactly what's wrong with you and how to fix it.

 

[SuavePlaya]

When you mentioned that he should join zenmack forums all that came to my mind was gomer pyle and sergent hartman from full metal jacket.

 

[Warrior74]

When you mentioned that he should join zenmack forums all that came to my mind was gomer pyle and sergent hartman from full metal jacket.

bwhahahaha. We were just watching the opening scene with gunny giving those guys hell about an hour ago at work! lol.

You do have a point though. might be too harsh for him! :trouble:

 

[Jaggs]

Finally, someone who shares the same thoughts with me about this CapedCrusader. Every other member was just being nice and working around it while he spewed more and more of his shyt.

All your posts are pathetic dude. DO Something, at least TRY. It's the only way you are going to even begin to change. Do NOT post here anymore, it is not helping. All you do is re-gurgitate your shyt over and over about how much you don't have and how much everyone else around you has.

So stop posting your stupid topics (Read : shut the hell up and stop whinging! We have tried to help but it doesn't get through to you)