"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So how many times do u call women a week

verysuave

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before u ask her out ON A DATE and AFTER the date? I tried looking for this here and i didnt find an answer.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There is not a definite answer but if you don't know her that well call her once to just chat for a bit just to gain some familiarity, or I guess some rapport. Generally that isn't what you're supposed to do, but thats if you're aren't that familiar with her yet. Talk for a bit and then the next time you call her ask her out.

But you can even skip out all of what I said and just ask her out.
 

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Phone calls are one of those things you have to play by ear. Every girl is different and you have to tailor it to the situation. Generally I don't talk to girls on the phone. If I need to plan something, I do it via text. They really don't call me either but rather text "how was your day, what are you doing, I can't wait to see you, etc etc", to which I reply eventually. But in general:

1) Don't call a girl "just to chat". You're a man. You're busy and you have more important things to do than waste time on the phone. If she brings it up, tell her like it is - you're busy (even if you're not) and you'd rather see her in person than talk on the phone.

2) If something is wrong or you need to find out something that would be stupid to do via text (like get directions or discuss something that would take a buttload of typing), go ahead and call her.

3) There are other circumstances where calling is perfectly fine. For example: you've been dating a girl and she or you are away on vacation. You haven't seen each other in a few days and haven't been texting much. Then it's ok to just call and ask her how her day is, tell her you've been thinking about her, and you look forward to seeing her again when you/she gets back. 5 mins is a good rule.
 

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md3sign said:
Phone calls are one of those things you have to play by ear. Every girl is different and you have to tailor it to the situation. Generally I don't talk to girls on the phone. If I need to plan something, I do it via text. They really don't call me either but rather text "how was your day, what are you doing, I can't wait to see you, etc etc", to which I reply eventually. But in general:

1) Don't call a girl "just to chat". You're a man. You're busy and you have more important things to do than waste time on the phone. If she brings it up, tell her like it is - you're busy (even if you're not) and you'd rather see her in person than talk on the phone.

2) If something is wrong or you need to find out something that would be stupid to do via text (like get directions or discuss something that would take a buttload of typing), go ahead and call her.

3) There are other circumstances where calling is perfectly fine. For example: you've been dating a girl and she or you are away on vacation. You haven't seen each other in a few days and haven't been texting much. Then it's ok to just call and ask her how her day is, tell her you've been thinking about her, and you look forward to seeing her again when you/she gets back. 5 mins is a good rule.
thank u thanku thank u.. Anymore?
 
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