"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So how many of you have kissed a girl the same day you met her?

guywhoneedshelp

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dmatter said:
just curious if it was possible and what you guys did to do this. lots of kino perhaps?
Most of the guys on this site will say "lots of alcohol"

for me it was just my ability to get into deep conversation with them and sometimes it was due to alcohol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Duffdog

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Yeah, I kissed a girl within 10 seconds. I think I made a post about it here somewhere, she was a hot undercover sheriff at Avalon in Sacramento-- her name was Lauren. I just looked at her, grabbed her by the belt and started making out with her-- I remember she had the most surprised look on her face, but liked it.
 
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