so how long is your hair naturally? a bad neg?

[pikachu69]

i asked this girl, 'so how long is your hair naturally?' i knew she had hair extensions cos i used to grab the back of her head to kiss her cheek before so i felt them.

She looked uncomfortable and self conscious, almost in a negative way. Was this a bad neg? I did compliment her hair 2 mins before that though.

p.s. we've been dating for a while now but things ended, now im back in there.

 

[ENIGMA16]

It's not necessarily a bad thing, but this girl might be super self-conscious about it to the point where you shouldn't joke about it or even address it. Once you've figured out that you crossed the line (and based on the fact that you posted about it here it's pretty clear that you knew) then you just quickly change the subject. Don't apologize or continue to talk about it at all and act like you never said it. If you're in a situation where a girl calls you out (like for example if this girl was like "that's a **** thing to say" and was really pissed) then you just play it off like a joke and change the subject.

 

[horaholic]

I dont think that was a bad thing to say. You should have gave her shyt for being self concious about it.

 

[Johnny_Kage]

I wouldn't look too much into it. For all we know, it's one bad thing that happened in an otherwise amazing interaction. Now you know it bothers her so don't bring it up again. No worries.

JK