"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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so how long is your hair naturally? a bad neg?

pikachu69

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i asked this girl, 'so how long is your hair naturally?' i knew she had hair extensions cos i used to grab the back of her head to kiss her cheek before so i felt them.

She looked uncomfortable and self conscious, almost in a negative way. Was this a bad neg? I did compliment her hair 2 mins before that though.

p.s. we've been dating for a while now but things ended, now im back in there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ENIGMA16

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It's not necessarily a bad thing, but this girl might be super self-conscious about it to the point where you shouldn't joke about it or even address it. Once you've figured out that you crossed the line (and based on the fact that you posted about it here it's pretty clear that you knew) then you just quickly change the subject. Don't apologize or continue to talk about it at all and act like you never said it. If you're in a situation where a girl calls you out (like for example if this girl was like "that's a **** thing to say" and was really pissed) then you just play it off like a joke and change the subject.
 

horaholic

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I dont think that was a bad thing to say. You should have gave her shyt for being self concious about it.
 

Johnny_Kage

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I wouldn't look too much into it. For all we know, it's one bad thing that happened in an otherwise amazing interaction. Now you know it bothers her so don't bring it up again. No worries.

JK
 
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