Any luck guys? Any new lays in December? Or do the holidays pretty much ruin it for y'all? I find the holidays to be especially tough to find new women, but the ones already spinning are pretty good to go. For example, screwed my medium-term relp last night, have my short term relp tonight, and my long term relp on NYE. But nobody new within the past couple of months.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
So how have the sluts been treating you this holiday season?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Julius_Seizeher
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It is upon us to treat the sluts in the way they want to be treated.
That being said, Santa has brought for me an unexpected xmas present: I've got a fat b!tch on my trail like a hellhound. I ran into her the night before Christmas Eve, which we all know is a good night to meet some pvssy. I spoke to her once, ten years ago when we were in high school, and now she is chasing me down like a mfer.
Fat b!tches can teach us alot about how we should be with the ones we want to fvck. And, they can even help you alleviate a grinding dry spell and give you something else to laugh about with your buddies. But not this one, she's too far gone.
This one is coming on gangbusters, I'm ignoring messages and bullsh!t left and right. When I saw her, she described in detail how so many young guys are trying to get with her and it's such an annoyance...I was not impressed and she has turned up the heat even further.
So I guess I am getting a reminder of how NOT to act with the opposite sex thus far this holiday season. NYE has surprised me in the past so we'll see if any hot LRs are forthcoming.
That being said, Santa has brought for me an unexpected xmas present: I've got a fat b!tch on my trail like a hellhound. I ran into her the night before Christmas Eve, which we all know is a good night to meet some pvssy. I spoke to her once, ten years ago when we were in high school, and now she is chasing me down like a mfer.
Fat b!tches can teach us alot about how we should be with the ones we want to fvck. And, they can even help you alleviate a grinding dry spell and give you something else to laugh about with your buddies. But not this one, she's too far gone.
This one is coming on gangbusters, I'm ignoring messages and bullsh!t left and right. When I saw her, she described in detail how so many young guys are trying to get with her and it's such an annoyance...I was not impressed and she has turned up the heat even further.
So I guess I am getting a reminder of how NOT to act with the opposite sex thus far this holiday season. NYE has surprised me in the past so we'll see if any hot LRs are forthcoming.
Julius_Seizeher
Master Don Juan
It is upon us to treat the sluts in the way they want to be treated.
That being said, Santa has brought for me an unexpected xmas present: I've got a fat b!tch on my trail like a hellhound. I ran into her the night before Christmas Eve, which we all know is a good night to meet some pvssy. I spoke to her once, ten years ago when we were in high school, and now she is chasing me down like a mfer.
Fat b!tches can teach us alot about how we should be with the ones we want to fvck. And, they can even help you alleviate a grinding dry spell and give you something else to laugh about with your buddies. But not this one, she's too far gone.
This one is coming on gangbusters, I'm ignoring messages and bullsh!t left and right. When I saw her, she described in detail how so many young guys are trying to get with her and it's such an annoyance...I was not impressed and she has turned up the heat even further.
So I guess I am getting a reminder of how NOT to act with the opposite sex thus far this holiday season. NYE has surprised me in the past so we'll see if any hot LRs are forthcoming.
That being said, Santa has brought for me an unexpected xmas present: I've got a fat b!tch on my trail like a hellhound. I ran into her the night before Christmas Eve, which we all know is a good night to meet some pvssy. I spoke to her once, ten years ago when we were in high school, and now she is chasing me down like a mfer.
Fat b!tches can teach us alot about how we should be with the ones we want to fvck. And, they can even help you alleviate a grinding dry spell and give you something else to laugh about with your buddies. But not this one, she's too far gone.
This one is coming on gangbusters, I'm ignoring messages and bullsh!t left and right. When I saw her, she described in detail how so many young guys are trying to get with her and it's such an annoyance...I was not impressed and she has turned up the heat even further.
So I guess I am getting a reminder of how NOT to act with the opposite sex thus far this holiday season. NYE has surprised me in the past so we'll see if any hot LRs are forthcoming.
Die Hard
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B!tches all flaked on me last weeks. Who cares, I picked them up before they flaked and that's what I focus on. Keeping things running smooth after that is the next level in my development towards master DJ 
Hitting the club tomorrow night, hope to do a NYE pick up!
Good luck with whatever women matters y'all be dealing with on NYE!
Hitting the club tomorrow night, hope to do a NYE pick up!
Good luck with whatever women matters y'all be dealing with on NYE!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Got a message from a somewhat decent looking slvt from an online dating site. Here's a nice snippet of her profile:
Anyway mid-December is when I met the main woman I'm banging right now. Had another one who's been hounding me for another date, but she was too fat, ugly, and has the personality of a fvcking know-it-all. Got a couple other prospects in the works right now too.
December's been a good month thus far! It's the summer months where I usually have dry spells.
Yeeeeeeessh!!!
Anyway mid-December is when I met the main woman I'm banging right now. Had another one who's been hounding me for another date, but she was too fat, ugly, and has the personality of a fvcking know-it-all. Got a couple other prospects in the works right now too.
December's been a good month thus far! It's the summer months where I usually have dry spells.
At 12:30am on Christmas Day, I just got home from being at a friend's Christmas Eve party (& complaining about my rotten luck in the Kris Kringles) when I was forced to be the judge of a certain contest between my female housemate and her chick friends (4 girls in total): who has the best tattooed and shaved pvssy? Reluctantly I agreed, after being bribed with drinks and being dragged by two girls to the judge's seat.
One I'd rather unsee, one is good but stares at me with a 1000-c0cks stare, and the other two are juicy.
One of the juicy ones wouldn't let go of me afterwards and followed me back to my room after I said I'm tired & going to bed...
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Had a date yesterday with a cute girl I've known for a while. I practiced the "judging girls" plan that Roissy wrote about and she kept trying to qualify herself to me. Was an afternoon date so didn't escalate, but that went well, and she said a few times that I should call her next week after NYD to do something together.
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I'm going out on NYE in the city, but unless some chick falls into my lap, I'd rather just enjoy a time out with friends.
Currently I have this reluctant attitude to gaming girls (long story) and it seems to work wonders, except that I'm not really enjoying it all that much.
One I'd rather unsee, one is good but stares at me with a 1000-c0cks stare, and the other two are juicy.
One of the juicy ones wouldn't let go of me afterwards and followed me back to my room after I said I'm tired & going to bed...
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Had a date yesterday with a cute girl I've known for a while. I practiced the "judging girls" plan that Roissy wrote about and she kept trying to qualify herself to me. Was an afternoon date so didn't escalate, but that went well, and she said a few times that I should call her next week after NYD to do something together.
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I'm going out on NYE in the city, but unless some chick falls into my lap, I'd rather just enjoy a time out with friends.
Currently I have this reluctant attitude to gaming girls (long story) and it seems to work wonders, except that I'm not really enjoying it all that much.
http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/12/22/thinking-like-a-woman/
Currently I'm disappointed with what women have to offer so with that mood, it becomes pretty easy.
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Haha, I think my female housemate is trying to seduce me now, after I slept with her friend. This morning she walked out of the shower "forgetting" to rope up properly and I thought nothing of it. Now she's sunbaking naked (t1tties side up, no less) in the backyard with the door & windows to the house all open, in a spot that's most visible to me while I'm in the kitchen making a meal. Geez, let a man have some food for the day first! She just walked in to make some small convo & I kept it cool. I'll see how good she is at this and how far she'll go. I'm moving out in a month or so (she doesn't know it yet) so I can just hit it & bolt. She's pretty cute.
Currently I'm disappointed with what women have to offer so with that mood, it becomes pretty easy.
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Haha, I think my female housemate is trying to seduce me now, after I slept with her friend. This morning she walked out of the shower "forgetting" to rope up properly and I thought nothing of it. Now she's sunbaking naked (t1tties side up, no less) in the backyard with the door & windows to the house all open, in a spot that's most visible to me while I'm in the kitchen making a meal. Geez, let a man have some food for the day first! She just walked in to make some small convo & I kept it cool. I'll see how good she is at this and how far she'll go. I'm moving out in a month or so (she doesn't know it yet) so I can just hit it & bolt. She's pretty cute.
All of the osingle slvts i've banged in the last couple of years have been poking me, messaging me and texting me around the holidays, apparently they are all still single. I've been swamped with work and family and that has been great. I really enjoyed spending time with my family this year.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Warrior74 said:
Some chic I only kissed 6 months ago just emailed me asking how I am. She's trying to re initiate contact.
I deleted it and it felt good.
Had a bad night with the short term girl last night and it will be our last. Was our 4th or so date.. first two dates were fine, had some ok sex quickly. Then she started getting neurotic about it, b/tching that she slept with me too soon and other sh!t. Then she called me and said that she'd gone in for some STD tests and was blaming me (turns out it was a bladder infection). So we hung out for our 3rd date, no sex. I was willing to give her one last shot but she was b/tchy and whining last night and cried for half the night because I wasn't answering the 5000 probing questions she asked, AND she wouldn't put out yet again, so I fell asleep and she went home.
The chick is 36 and the longest relp she ever had was less than a year. When I brought that up she started bawling. She's a head case. And the sex was fairly poor as well.
So now I need a new short-term girl.
The chick is 36 and the longest relp she ever had was less than a year. When I brought that up she started bawling. She's a head case. And the sex was fairly poor as well.
So now I need a new short-term girl.
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Zunder said:
I don't want to talk to her. The girl I have is hotter why would I waste my time with trash from the past?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
halfway in the bag on this one so bear with me..
December was underwhelming. I cut off one plate because her personality wasn't that good and she was trying to close the deal. Another chick I was trying to wheel and managed to fool around with has since turned flake so that turned out to be a waste of time. Also tried getting a bunch of numbers from chicks I met out, but most of them blew me off when I tried to contact them. Had an interesting night last week, but its not a chick I should pursue.
Out with the old and in with the new. 2010 was a horrible year for me yet I managed to have success at a moderately high clip. can't imagine 2011 when **** is going my way. Onto what should be a sick party tonight...wish me luck!!!!!!
December was underwhelming. I cut off one plate because her personality wasn't that good and she was trying to close the deal. Another chick I was trying to wheel and managed to fool around with has since turned flake so that turned out to be a waste of time. Also tried getting a bunch of numbers from chicks I met out, but most of them blew me off when I tried to contact them. Had an interesting night last week, but its not a chick I should pursue.
Out with the old and in with the new. 2010 was a horrible year for me yet I managed to have success at a moderately high clip. can't imagine 2011 when **** is going my way. Onto what should be a sick party tonight...wish me luck!!!!!!
I think December is the worse month to meet women. All family holidays and busy people, not to mention snow. Things always pick up after Valentines day though! That's when they clean their closets and get rid of their sorry ass boyfriends.
Update on this chick. I deleted her from my phone and chat client and I guess she realized this because she texted me wondering what was wrong. I told her off (this was Dec 31st) and said I was over it, too much b/tching not enough sex. No response.Zarky said:
Then the next day (Jan 1) I sent her a text telling her I had a dream about her. She texted me back saying I was confusing her and did I want to come over? I said yes and went over to her place and we screwed. She said she thought she'd never hear from me again. She was still neurotic and talks waaaaay too much so I don't think the relp is going to last but she blew me like there was no tomorrow so I guess she got the point.
Interesting, the last few women I've dated who weren't putting out enough (going back to 2008, about 1 out of 3 new women I date has this problem) started putting out with vigor after I told them there wasn't enough sex and dumped them.. and then showed them some kindness. Maybe it's just that simple.
I know the mantra is "change her mood not her mind" but for some reason, at least for me, if they're not putting out and I get pissed and tell them that I'm dumping them because they're not putting out, then give 'em a day or so to stew on it, then re-initiate contact, this always seems to work for me. They invite me over almost immediately and screw me like crazy, as if to say, "Here's what you want."
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Forgot to mention, apparently on the morning of Jan 1 the girl hung out with a few of her friends and she complained about me. Later told me that all her friends "hated me" even though I haven't met any of 'em. LOL.. and said that she'd have to explain to them why she ended up sleeping with me after I "treated her so badly." Girls are whacky.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.