Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So how exactly do you get a hold of a woman who gets tons of attention on...

SeymourCake

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social media?

It seems the best approach would be speaking to them in person right?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Send her the old "look babe, I just want to make you my perfect 10/10 girlfriend and jizz all over your face".

See what happens bro. I'm not even trolling. You think her orbiters have the guts to say some sh*t like that?
 

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Real talk: I have a friend who was a back up singer, and she was performing on TV one time for a major artist. There was another back up singer on stage as well and I thought she was cute. I looked her up on FB via my friend's page and saw that she had a LOT of orbiters hitting up her page. So what did I do? I hit my friend up, told her to ask the other back up singer if it was okay to hit her up, and when I got the ok, the first message I wrote her basically said "I think you're hot, I don't know much more than that but I'd like to take you out, please send me your number." Turns out, she was single - the next day, I got the digits and we went out for a few months.

What's my point? DON'T PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT'S ON HER FRIGGIN' PAGE AND ASK HER OUT ALREADY. All those guys commenting on her stuff via social media are not bold enough to ask her out for a one-on-one date, so act like they don't even exist - 'cause really, they don't.
 

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Stand out. Most of the orbiters are pussies and have girlfriends, wives, or no self esteem. So, kick ass on your own social media and be seen to be living an awesome existence and have her liking your **** instead, and be bold. Ask her out. Most of social media is about illustrating what you WANT people to believe about your life. She could be living on a blow up mattress in a YWCA for all you know online. Being popular doesn't make her less approachable necessarily.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Epimanes

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I always thought you just "poke" them?

*shrugs*
 

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Social media is for her own pleasure to seek validation from other men. She doesn't care about the oribiters on her page because she is dating more important men off her page.
 

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Harry Wilmington said:
Real talk: I have a friend who was a back up singer, and she was performing on TV one time for a major artist. There was another back up singer on stage as well and I thought she was cute. I looked her up on FB via my friend's page and saw that she had a LOT of orbiters hitting up her page. So what did I do? I hit my friend up, told her to ask the other back up singer if it was okay to hit her up, and when I got the ok, the first message I wrote her basically said "I think you're hot, I don't know much more than that but I'd like to take you out, please send me your number." Turns out, she was single - the next day, I got the digits and we went out for a few months.

What's my point? DON'T PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT'S ON HER FRIGGIN' PAGE AND ASK HER OUT ALREADY. All those guys commenting on her stuff via social media are not bold enough to ask her out for a one-on-one date, so act like they don't even exist - 'cause really, they don't.
This is actually the best way to get women. Don't get me wrong, cold approaches sometimes work but it's best to seek women by expanding your social circle. Good post. repped.
 

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Icegreen said:
Send her the old "look babe, I just want to make you my perfect 10/10 girlfriend and jizz all over your face".

See what happens bro. I'm not even trolling. You think her orbiters have the guts to say some sh*t like that?
Her orbiters may not have the guts to say that but that doesn't automatically make it a good idea. There's a difference between being sexual and being crass and the latter is a turn-off for most women. Even the slvts don't like to think of themselves as slvts.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Be different. Sounds simple but it works. Don't go on her photo album liking all her fckin pics. When you message her write something random but funny, if you don't want to be one of her orbiters don't say this crap> "omg you're the hottest girl I've ever seen blah blah blah" Really?? She's the hottest girl you've seen?? You know that ain't true...Everyday she's reminded by 50+ guys that she's hot, you don't wanna be one of them. Say sh!t she doesn't hear on a daily basis, Neg her
 
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