"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So how does everyone dress?

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What does everyone wear on a daily basis to attract the ladies and why

I wear girl pants and tight shirts, because one I'm skinny, two girls like it for some odd reason, and three because it shows off my man meat. After I started dressing like this I started getting way more numbers and stuff like that.

So how do you dress and why do you dress that way
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I personally can't wear girl pants (nor would I want to) because they constrict my nuts too much. And I can't skate in them cause i can't move my legs. And I can't really walk because my legs are too big. But to each his own I guess.

I wear comfy jeans (not too tight, not hella baggy) and usually a band t-shirt, sometimes a button down if I am feeling way to sexy to live.

I really don't think it matters too much though.
 
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wait a sec...


and three because it shows off my man meat.
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Didn't you just say you were skinny? Or do you like your nuts compressed?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lmao i tried on girl pants once and couldn't even get my leg half way in! I can't believe people wear those...aren't they uncomfortable?

Anyway i really like vintage clothes, so I usually wear A&F or Hollister with something odd, like a vintage shirt or a crazy belt buckle. Seems to work good, plus I don't really have to buy that many clothes because people always give me there old ones haha.
 
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Yeah, I'm wear girl pants sometimes too. But my parents think I'm wierd. I do get more attention from girls when I dress like that. It's an emo thing, everyone loves emos. Where do you shop Trend?
 
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Well I own a little clothing company and stuff so I wear a lot of my own stuff. (chicks really dig that too) but when I don't I shop at many bike shops and stuff for my t-shirts and for my pants I go to old navy for actual womens jeans or skateshops for mens slim fits.
 
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some ****ies shorts and normal tees, pretty casual and sporty
 
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straight leg semi tight fitting jeans and a tee. simple yet effective
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Since I'm black I stay away from urban wear and the whole rapper look that way I standout.

I go for the more European/vintage/male model look.

I wear jeans like antiks, True religions, etc.
I wear tight shirts with graphics on them. (Some people think I'm gay!)
I'm also starting to add some accessories here and there. Sometimes I'd wear a vintage tie with a blazer. Anything that looks simple but has a cool twist.

You can basically say I'm peacocked lightly, but then add to the equation a black guy actually wearing such things, you got yourself a kid who is different from the crowd. (Since not many people see black people wearing size Medium and Large unless there some MUSCLE HEAD)
 
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The way you look is only 20-30% of attraction, that comes out of the "Hpw to become an Alpha Male" book, so aslong as your clean and your clothes dont make you stand out in a bad way you are golden, given you have a good personality and attitude.
 
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I dress preppy-ish I guess. Almost like a surfer look, but I do wear blazers and stuff when I go out. Usually a messy look to the hair but controlled so that it doesn't look like I just got out of bed.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i wear short-shorts with my thong hanging out in the back.

and tight pink shirts

and converse allstars.
 
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Good stylin', Charms.

I usually wear comfy jeans or chinos, plus button-ups or polos or T-shirts. Usually button-ups, it's slightly formal but still cool.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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