"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So how does everyone dress?

Trend

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What does everyone wear on a daily basis to attract the ladies and why

I wear girl pants and tight shirts, because one I'm skinny, two girls like it for some odd reason, and three because it shows off my man meat. After I started dressing like this I started getting way more numbers and stuff like that.

So how do you dress and why do you dress that way
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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drummer

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I personally can't wear girl pants (nor would I want to) because they constrict my nuts too much. And I can't skate in them cause i can't move my legs. And I can't really walk because my legs are too big. But to each his own I guess.

I wear comfy jeans (not too tight, not hella baggy) and usually a band t-shirt, sometimes a button down if I am feeling way to sexy to live.

I really don't think it matters too much though.
 

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wait a sec...


and three because it shows off my man meat.
Didn't you just say you were skinny? Or do you like your nuts compressed?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Rock_Solid

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Lmao i tried on girl pants once and couldn't even get my leg half way in! I can't believe people wear those...aren't they uncomfortable?

Anyway i really like vintage clothes, so I usually wear A&F or Hollister with something odd, like a vintage shirt or a crazy belt buckle. Seems to work good, plus I don't really have to buy that many clothes because people always give me there old ones haha.
 

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Yeah, I'm wear girl pants sometimes too. But my parents think I'm wierd. I do get more attention from girls when I dress like that. It's an emo thing, everyone loves emos. Where do you shop Trend?
 

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Well I own a little clothing company and stuff so I wear a lot of my own stuff. (chicks really dig that too) but when I don't I shop at many bike shops and stuff for my t-shirts and for my pants I go to old navy for actual womens jeans or skateshops for mens slim fits.
 

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some ****ies shorts and normal tees, pretty casual and sporty
 

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straight leg semi tight fitting jeans and a tee. simple yet effective
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Snow Plowman

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Since I'm black I stay away from urban wear and the whole rapper look that way I standout.

I go for the more European/vintage/male model look.

I wear jeans like antiks, True religions, etc.
I wear tight shirts with graphics on them. (Some people think I'm gay!)
I'm also starting to add some accessories here and there. Sometimes I'd wear a vintage tie with a blazer. Anything that looks simple but has a cool twist.

You can basically say I'm peacocked lightly, but then add to the equation a black guy actually wearing such things, you got yourself a kid who is different from the crowd. (Since not many people see black people wearing size Medium and Large unless there some MUSCLE HEAD)
 
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The way you look is only 20-30% of attraction, that comes out of the "Hpw to become an Alpha Male" book, so aslong as your clean and your clothes dont make you stand out in a bad way you are golden, given you have a good personality and attitude.
 

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I dress preppy-ish I guess. Almost like a surfer look, but I do wear blazers and stuff when I go out. Usually a messy look to the hair but controlled so that it doesn't look like I just got out of bed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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i wear short-shorts with my thong hanging out in the back.

and tight pink shirts

and converse allstars.
 

The Shocker

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Good stylin', Charms.

I usually wear comfy jeans or chinos, plus button-ups or polos or T-shirts. Usually button-ups, it's slightly formal but still cool.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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