"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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so how do you guys keep your girls attracted and sexually interested

dmatter

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Hey so how do you guys keep your girls, sexually interested in you like always wanting to have sex. I mean I know my girl loves me and all but I want sexual tension to be there her wanting to rip my pants off. Also how can I get a girl horny besides kissing her neck?please only serious answers
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ridingthelightning

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Slight grab on the hair when you're making out - NOT a yank or pull! Run your hands through her hair (women usually like this, too) then tighten enough to where you're not gripping her hair but can let her know where you want her to go.
Laughter makes women hornier than horny. Be funny.
 

Gangster Of Love

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it all comes down to "brand". What is your Unique Selling Propositon (USP), as they say in marketing.

What is it that you provide to her, which she can only go to you to get it? What is the one thing you offer her and any other woman, that they cannot get anywhere else?

Think about it, and develop yourself, until you have your answer. When that happens, they will be ripping your clothes off, on a consistent basis.
 

Cinamon

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One of the things my ex and I did was have sex in just about every place in his house, and not just average sex, but world rocking good sex. Automatically by association those places became sexy, and just a reminder or small reference to what happened there use to get me going. But then again, it could only be me, I have the sex drive of a man!
 

slaog

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Everybody has a value to other people and that value depends how they see you. So if a girl likes muscles and you've alot of muscles then you'll be higher value in her eyes then the eyes of a girl who likes skinny men.


Keep improving yourself and as you develop yourself you'll increase your value to her and she'll stay attracted.

When being sexual, just have fun. Treat them like little girls and make them laugh and giggle etc... in other worlds make them feel good emotionally as well as physically. Good feelings become addictive. ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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