"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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so how do you become an alpha?

KneghtRyder

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i understand how important it is now..and would like to continue.

these are the things I've tried. i 've stopped masturbating, made friends with these alpha dudes from the army , they just seem to not care about anything. They have this good sense of ability to socialize know who to talk and how in such a way people respect them. I 've started getting up in the morning and working out because I feel that it helps me feel better throughout the day.


i guess how do you build that self-esteem, self-worth in yourself to see your self as alpha ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJVladdy

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1. Lift them weights if ur underweight / Run if your overweight

2. Know as clear as possible who you are and what you want in life. Know what is acceptable or unacceptable in your world.

3. Feel and Emote less (big one for me). think and do more. This will naturally do several good things, like you will become more action-oriented. Thoughts will be cleared. You will be more resourceful, and less focused or worried about negative result.

4. Kill the internal dialogue. Make your actions and thoughts congruent with your desires at all times.
 

DJVladdy

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1. Lift them weights if ur underweight / Run if your overweight

2. Know as clear as possible who you are and what you want in life. Know what is acceptable or unacceptable in your world.

3. Feel and Emote less (big one for me). think and do more. This will naturally do several good things, like you will become more action-oriented. Thoughts will be cleared. You will be more resourceful, and less focused or worried about negative result.

4. Kill the internal dialogue. Make your actions and thoughts congruent with your desires at all times.
 

KontrollerX

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Work out, eat right, work on the confidence level, read Rollo Tomassi, backbreaker, Victory Unlimited and Str8up posts, get in the field and try to apply the knowledge learned here with my natural DJ cousins as wingmen on Fridays and Saturdays.

Thats my strategy for the time being basically.
 

strong like bull

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1. Lift them weights if ur underweight / Run if your overweight

2. Know as clear as possible who you are and what you want in life. Know what is acceptable or unacceptable in your world.

3. Feel and Emote less (big one for me). think and do more. This will naturally do several good things, like you will become more action-oriented. Thoughts will be cleared. You will be more resourceful, and less focused or worried about negative result.

4. Kill the internal dialogue. Make your actions and thoughts congruent with your desires at all times.


wow. easily 4of10 top goals for any man. four goals to complete that would not only help make you extremely successful with life, but also women as an indirect result. absolutely correlates to writings of pook, lms/prl, and other naturalist djs.

very good dj bible quality.

-SLB
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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