"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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so how do you become an alpha?

KneghtRyder

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i understand how important it is now..and would like to continue.

these are the things I've tried. i 've stopped masturbating, made friends with these alpha dudes from the army , they just seem to not care about anything. They have this good sense of ability to socialize know who to talk and how in such a way people respect them. I 've started getting up in the morning and working out because I feel that it helps me feel better throughout the day.


i guess how do you build that self-esteem, self-worth in yourself to see your self as alpha ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJVladdy

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1. Lift them weights if ur underweight / Run if your overweight

2. Know as clear as possible who you are and what you want in life. Know what is acceptable or unacceptable in your world.

3. Feel and Emote less (big one for me). think and do more. This will naturally do several good things, like you will become more action-oriented. Thoughts will be cleared. You will be more resourceful, and less focused or worried about negative result.

4. Kill the internal dialogue. Make your actions and thoughts congruent with your desires at all times.
 

DJVladdy

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1. Lift them weights if ur underweight / Run if your overweight

2. Know as clear as possible who you are and what you want in life. Know what is acceptable or unacceptable in your world.

3. Feel and Emote less (big one for me). think and do more. This will naturally do several good things, like you will become more action-oriented. Thoughts will be cleared. You will be more resourceful, and less focused or worried about negative result.

4. Kill the internal dialogue. Make your actions and thoughts congruent with your desires at all times.
 

KontrollerX

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Work out, eat right, work on the confidence level, read Rollo Tomassi, backbreaker, Victory Unlimited and Str8up posts, get in the field and try to apply the knowledge learned here with my natural DJ cousins as wingmen on Fridays and Saturdays.

Thats my strategy for the time being basically.
 

strong like bull

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1. Lift them weights if ur underweight / Run if your overweight

2. Know as clear as possible who you are and what you want in life. Know what is acceptable or unacceptable in your world.

3. Feel and Emote less (big one for me). think and do more. This will naturally do several good things, like you will become more action-oriented. Thoughts will be cleared. You will be more resourceful, and less focused or worried about negative result.

4. Kill the internal dialogue. Make your actions and thoughts congruent with your desires at all times.


wow. easily 4of10 top goals for any man. four goals to complete that would not only help make you extremely successful with life, but also women as an indirect result. absolutely correlates to writings of pook, lms/prl, and other naturalist djs.

very good dj bible quality.

-SLB
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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