"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So how do you avoid having a woman complain when dating her or blowing you off?

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Or what do you do when she does complain? Because obviously I was trying to make my point and argue with her back and it didnt work and she quit talking to me out of nowhere. How do you guys handle this situation?

Or when you can tell she wont make time for you blowing you off being distant? etc...

When you really like the girl what do you do?
 

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To not get blown off I just make sure to make light contact via text earlier on in the day. Something like "are we on for tonight?" then when i'm getting ready i'll make sure to call her for something. Maybe to ask her what she's wearing, or to change the scheduling to maybe :30 min later. Changing the scheduling sets a precedent that even :30 min late is unacceptable since i'm taking the time to notify her of that.
 
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When a woman (or anyone complains) you either do nothing, laugh amusingly or ask what the fvck their problem is. Never ever ever ever argue. In the case the damage is already done learn from your own mistakes.

If they are distant you tell them to have a nice time and you go do something interesting.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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