“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JohnChops

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tell if a girl has a BF? Ya this sounds pretty retarded to ask but I was curious. I suppose the only way to know if to simply grab her number and see what happens? Agree or disagree?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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There is no boyfriend unless she says so AFTER you ask her out. If she flirts, laughs, is touchy-feely with you, it's game on. Even if she does have one,meh could be a śhit bag that she's lookin to ditch (many girls are with a guy by default to avoid being single at all costs). That's where you step in.

So until she explicitly says so...go for the gold.
 

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VladPatton said:
There is no boyfriend unless she says so AFTER you ask her out. If she flirts, laughs, is touchy-feely with you, it's game on. Even if she does have one,meh could be a śhit bag that she's lookin to ditch (many girls are with a guy by default to avoid being single at all costs). That's where you step in.

So until she explicitly says so...go for the gold.
I've heard that, also they only stay with him only to wait for another better guy to come along. Also thanks for the solid advice vladd. She's complemented me on the way I dress on multiple instances plus she randomly always bumps into mE. Going for it thanks brotha!
 

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If at all possible, I try to facebook a girl before asking her out.
 

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Yeah, man it's just like any other potential chick. You never know until you try. When she says "no", you know undeniably that she wants nothing to do with you and you can move on. No harm done.

I've missed a few girls by being the nice guy. It's a complete and massive disservice to yourself. Good luck.
 

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You know what there was another thread I was reading not too long ago http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=18373 , and I actually used one of the points in this thread on a girl that said she had a boyfriend to me. It made for a pretty entertaining conversation. I'm just learning right now but I think you just go put your game on them and if they reject you then who gives a ****, move on to the next.
 

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I agree with Vlad.

If a girl has cheating on her mind then she WILL do it with or without you. So it's better to just go for it unless otherwise stated that she has one. Just be aware of the potential back lash from the boyfriend.
 

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Frayzer said:
I agree with Vlad.

If a girl has cheating on her mind then she WILL do it with or without you. So it's better to just go for it unless otherwise stated that she has one. Just be aware of the potential back lash from the boyfriend.
She doesn't necessarily need to cheat...she'll just dump the chump and start going out with you instead. Bonus. Party time. Excellent.
 

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SO lemme update you fine fellas!

Ended up grabbing her number, it was quite easy and she was really easy to talk to. Convo flowed, flirting in sued, i go in for the # close and there was no talk of a BF the entire time.

Mission completed I'd say, time to go fish!
 
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