Hello SoSuave, this is my forst post here and I would like to present you with a problem I've recently had.
So I became interested in this girl when a very good friend of mine mentioned she was really intelligent. I quickly became interested, but forgot about her for a few months. Lately, I've tried to contact her, and she quickly replied. I contacted her without any picture or details as to who I am or how I look, but she wasn't faltered by my lack of details, apparently, and quickly told me to give her a sign, should I come into her city, so we can discuss about what she does.
Now, she's a very busy and extremely popular girl, and she's good looking too. She's full of friend and she's constantly being messaged. I did not assess my chances before going in. Also, she's in a relationship.
We finally got to meet and I challenged her for a game beforehand. If she performed well in a contest, I'd buy her a beer she's never tried before, and if she didn't, I wouldn't. Of course, the next time we met she was supposed to buy me something I've never tried before.
While we were talking, and we did a lot of talking, she really seemed interested in me, playing with her hair, constant eye contact, smiling with her teeth visible, laughing at bad jokes, feet crossed, facing me, all that. After all that, she never mentioned ANYTHING about a boyfriend, just a best friend and friends. After we showed each other where we live, and had a fun time, I told her to hit me up if she wants to hang out again.
Since then, I contacted her two more times. Once, telling her I had a great time and we should hang out more if we're neighbors, to which she replied of "yes, yes
of course . have a great week!" and another time when I just talked to her about her job and she used really short answers, repeating what I said, and then she turned me down rather quickly, telling me she had to take a bath.
That was yesterday evening. I've decided to not contact her anymore, maybe even unfriend her. I can give many more details if you need.
So , what do you think, bros? What should I do next?
So I became interested in this girl when a very good friend of mine mentioned she was really intelligent. I quickly became interested, but forgot about her for a few months. Lately, I've tried to contact her, and she quickly replied. I contacted her without any picture or details as to who I am or how I look, but she wasn't faltered by my lack of details, apparently, and quickly told me to give her a sign, should I come into her city, so we can discuss about what she does.
Now, she's a very busy and extremely popular girl, and she's good looking too. She's full of friend and she's constantly being messaged. I did not assess my chances before going in. Also, she's in a relationship.
We finally got to meet and I challenged her for a game beforehand. If she performed well in a contest, I'd buy her a beer she's never tried before, and if she didn't, I wouldn't. Of course, the next time we met she was supposed to buy me something I've never tried before.
While we were talking, and we did a lot of talking, she really seemed interested in me, playing with her hair, constant eye contact, smiling with her teeth visible, laughing at bad jokes, feet crossed, facing me, all that. After all that, she never mentioned ANYTHING about a boyfriend, just a best friend and friends. After we showed each other where we live, and had a fun time, I told her to hit me up if she wants to hang out again.
Since then, I contacted her two more times. Once, telling her I had a great time and we should hang out more if we're neighbors, to which she replied of "yes, yes
of course . have a great week!" and another time when I just talked to her about her job and she used really short answers, repeating what I said, and then she turned me down rather quickly, telling me she had to take a bath. That was yesterday evening. I've decided to not contact her anymore, maybe even unfriend her. I can give many more details if you need.
So , what do you think, bros? What should I do next?
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