Originally posted by Dapper Swindler
I just suck and you are too cool. How do I respond to that question?
lmao, haha. Nice.
Anytime I've really been into a girl in the last several years I've got a second date. The times where it's been "iffy", it means there wasn't much of a connection between us and I'm not feelin her so I don't call her again so there is no rejection against me.
The last time I was rejected was several years ago. I really got twisted over this girl. She had it all...or so I thought. Cuuuuuute face...gorgeous body...in fact, the best body I've yet to come across...ohhhh so nice...and she was really chill and fun to be around. She was diggin me hardcore and suggested we go back to my place to watch a movie. Cool with me. Of course you know what that means...we ended up fvcking. But like I said, I got twisted and became infatuated like a retard and started getting all lovey dovey after we fvcked. I'm sure it creeped her out cause it would creep me out. Anyway, she said she'd call me..hahahha...she never did. So I called her. And called her. And called her. My female friends told me to ignore her the next time I saw her, which was good advice....and I listened to it. But guess what...hahahahahhah...the next day I felt bad for ignoring her cause I thought it was uncool and out of my character so i called her to apologize!!!! ahahhahahahah. Luckily her mom answered and I just told her mom to have the girl call me back. After I hung up my female friend called to see how I was doing and I told her that I just called the girl to apologize for ignoring her. My female friend was like, "OMG!!!! You're so lame! Be a MAN!!! Do you know how much of a pvssy you look like now? BE A MAN. Don't call her to apologize. Fvck that slut. Ignore her." That was one of the few times where my female friend gave good advice on women.
I never did see that girl again and it was what brought me to this site and eventually led me into other things. Through it all I always remember my female friends advice.
So, if you're not getting a second date it's most likely because you're boring her, creeping her out, or just plain not creating a connection. If you have nothing exciting to talk about, if you're not having fun, then you're boring her and why would she want to experience that again? If you're talking about marriage, kids, looking at her with doe eyes, and agreeing with everything she says, then you're creeping her out. Again, why she want meet up for a second helping of that? If all you do is talk about superficial issues then she may feel no connection and think you just want to fvck her and leave. Unless she's a party girl, why would she want that from a guy who doesn't take any time to actually get to know her?
You have to be fun. You have to be laid back. And you have to get to know her. Behave the way you normally do around your friends.
