"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So hard to get your account deleted.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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zekko

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Why are guys so eager to get their account deleted?
I always think they're afraid their girlfriends are going to find their posts or something.
If the account gets deleted, the posts still stay, right?
 

Iceberg

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zekko said:
Why are guys so eager to get their account deleted?
I always think they're afraid their girlfriends are going to find their posts or something.
If the account gets deleted, the posts still stay, right?
Yeah. There's really no benefit to deleting the account. If you don't like a particular website, then just don't visit it.

It's not like sosuave sends you daily emails and stuff.
 

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Actually, deleting an account is pretty much impossible: It would require a cascade deletion in the database removing all your posts, replies and other things, which in turn would create a lot of havoc on the forums in general.

I don't even think the forum software supports it. You could always get your account banned if you want / asked for it / did stuff to get a perm ban.
 
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