"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So guys I was wondering.

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I know this kid, who loves basketball and has the idea that he can make the ultimate workout that will enable him to get into top form. He has3 day splits that looks like this


Mon
squats
front squats
good mornings
stiff legged deadlift
and weighted calf raises at a bunch of different angles

tues
30 minute biking
20 minute stairs
3 diff ab exercises
3 plyometric exercises that i dont know the name of

WEdns
bench
inclince dumbell
dips
military press
skull crushers

thurs
same as tues

fri
deadlift
powerclean
barbell row
pullups
chinups
barbell row.

then sat and sun he has agility speed drills and basketball drills which i imagine an intsense 3 to 5 hours



Now from my point of view it doesnt look that bad but the fact hes doing somethin everyday wouldnt allow time to rest and when i told him that he says he gets 9 hours of sleep.

hes 6 ft like 180 lbs and rather lean like me.

what could he expect from a routine like this? any increase in strength or vertical?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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