"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So far, the worst that has happened to me

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So yeah, I haven't had much luck with girls, just check my started threads and you'll discover years and years of a miserable love-life. My brother on the other hand - chicks love him

Met this girl 2 weeks ago, we made out, I got her number, she started texting me etc. Finally I thought, for once in my life, for the first time in my life there is a hot girl initiating contact with me and want to date me. I played it cool, she was chasing me and not the other way around, this gave me a very strong confidence boost

Last night, she calls me up, drunk, saying that she's in love with my brother. I ask my brother about it, turns out he had sex with her before. So she's been using me as a replacement for my brother (who has a gf).

You can imagine how I feel - my confidence is now at rock-bottom. Just wanted to get this off my chest. Blocked her on FB and deleted her phone #

Have any of you guys been in a similar situation? Or worse? How do you pick yourself up from an experience like this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Move on. It's really that simple.
 
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Just bang her and then let her chase you some more, what have you got to lose? She already wants to treat you like ****, might as well get something out of it. That is pretty ****ty, I have not had that happen to me yet mostly because my brother is married and not very good looking.
 
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Blocking her number and deleting her off your facebook was a smart move. That is a ****ty situation that you will only grow from. To hell with that *****.
 
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Wow, that really is bad, sbgm. Sorry to hear that. She should be ashamed of herself. Have you told your brother about this? Maybe he could rip her ears off. As a figure of speech, of course. Or maybe not.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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D Wolfgang said:
Wow, that really is bad, sbgm. Sorry to hear that. She should be ashamed of herself. Have you told your brother about this? Maybe he could rip her ears off. As a figure of speech, of course. Or maybe not.
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Yes I told him.. But now she's sending me multiple texts that she doesnt like my brother and that she is sorry if it appeared that way. Anyways, she is not relationship material, might just bang her and move on
 
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